Is this is a shit test or just fucked up behavior?

plowzedong · 2018-03-04T07:57:26+00:00

Ya, you are her gay best friend.

There's really no such thing as a ldr. You are wasting your time and not getting laid in return. Functionally, it's a gay best friend scenario, regardless of a few sappy snaps she sends to string you along.

You get what you tolerate man.

If I were you, I'd cut this girl loose and invest you time elsewhere. Talking to multiple girls will make you less needy and invested into any one of them, and you'll be less inclined to tolerate behavior like this.

xTheHeroWeNeedx · 2018-03-04T07:44:22+00:00

Block her. Stress-be-gone

Deep_freeze202 · 2018-03-04T19:20:54+00:00

You don't have a long distance thing with this or any other chick, long distance relationships don't exist.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-03-04T19:09:12+00:00

heres an update

As expected, she’s bombarding me with snaps today. This happens the next day following her shit behavior, each and every time.

Clearly it doesn’t matter. I’ve ignored her for weeks after shit like this before, only to have her apologize and admit how shitty it was on her end. It doesn’t matter to her I guess, because she keeps on doing it and has zero respect for me or my feelings.

If she’s testing me to feel my strength then she’s going to feel it, because I’m walking for good.

2018-03-06T22:08:30+00:00

You want to know how to beat shit tests? Don't play them.

TorDZeus · 2018-03-04T19:03:05+00:00

I no longer think these are shit tests for me to pass. Although I find it flattering that she’s with another guy and still thinks of me in that moment instead of him, I think this is just fucked up behavior.

Shit tests aren't real. They are one of the dumbest concepts ever. There are no tests to pass to get her to like you or inside her pants. Real-life isn't a video game. This is one of the biggest lies because it makes you think bad behavior = good behavior. Insanity.

http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.com/2010/06/shit-test.html

Her behavior is disrespectful. It shows a lack of consideration on her part for your feelings.

I have stated flat out that I’m not here to be friends, I’m not your therapist, what you do out there is your business, and they can all keep you busy until you’re with me.

In a good relationship you are looking to be her best friend and therapist and being mutually responsible for business. That is called emotional support, teamwork and synergy. You want the exact opposite of what you have with this girl to be happy.

Title	Is this is a shit test or just fucked up behavior?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	March 4, 2018 7:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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