Co worker into me?

Mick-a-wish · 2018-03-05T01:43:51+00:00

I have three rules, don’t date architects, don’t date customers and don’t date co-workers. Be careful, imagine if you did start going out with her, things get hot and heavy, 6 months later you guys split. Think of the work dynamics at this point. To me, it’s not worth it.

zfgee · 2018-03-05T03:19:56+00:00

You're gonna fuck this up if you haven't already so listen closely.

Don't fucking ask her out for coffee. Friends do coffee. Friends do movies.

Also, if you are texting and noticing she is "taking too long" to reply, you are texting too fast and too much. Stop being a needy chode. It will push her away. She is probably initiating stuff because she is interested in you but if you reply with a wall of text, or faster than she replies, or with questions instead of funny remaks that rarely NEED a response, you are killing attraction. Make her wait.

In person, ask her when she is free to grab a DRINK next week. Don't ask if she wants to. Ask WHEN SHE IS FREE (then set a specific time and place to meet). And DO NOT CALL IT A DATE. She'll know the implications of this are romantic without you needing to call it a date etc. If she tries to do a coffee or movie, stand firm and push back.

I totally disagree about not fucking coworkers. Unless you are immature children, it doesn't matter if you go on one date or date of 3 years then split. Shouldn't be a professional issue.

JefemanG · 2018-03-05T02:59:55+00:00

DON'T. FUCK. YOUR. COWORKERS.

Title	Co worker into me?
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Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	March 5, 2018 12:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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