Tinder unsuccessful

gabilromariz · 2014-12-08T17:46:24+00:00

If yout tinder is unsuccessful you either:

aren't as hot as you think
have too much text and come across as beta
give the girl waaay to muc attention

eazy_bgko · 2014-12-08T17:46:43+00:00

I followed Gatsby's Tinder Guide and it worked well to get them to talk back. It could be your luck though, maybe the area where you live.

TheRealMewt · 2014-12-08T19:37:58+00:00

Let's see your tinder profile.

Pentdad · 2014-12-08T21:12:17+00:00

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tombreck2 · 2014-12-08T17:45:54+00:00

Try different openers; search TRP for tinder openers and pick a new one to use. There are also some good scren caps of tinder convos that lead to sex.

eazy_bgko · 2014-12-08T18:33:16+00:00

I'm matching with decent looking chick's it just that ya they don't say shit back

bicepsblastingstud · 2014-12-08T20:16:16+00:00

What exactly are you saying to them?

bsutansalt · 2014-12-09T05:33:53+00:00

1 lay out of 400 matches is a realistic success rate for an average run of the mill guy. The better looking and more dark triad you are the better your results. Ditto if you're a bartender or something like that.

Factors to consider:

women have pick of the litter
not all the women you're matching with are even using the app anymore
some have boyfriends or husbands and only put their toe in the water because there may have been problems at home and are just using it for validation and never intend on meeting anyone

There are tons more reasons why Tinder is only maybe 1/4 as effective as cold approach. which is still a numbres game and your average guy might only get laid 1 in 100 approaches.

Title	Tinder unsuccessful
Author	eazy_bgko
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	December 8, 2014 5:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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