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[–]tickledpic 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You'll know that you are spot on when you'll feel like you are mostly responding to her. Then go for the same lenght of text as hers. If she is not advancing convo herself, stick to minimalism as you are doing now.
[–]Zoidberg22 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I get that but again my responses are mixed at best. Then I see guys who write paragraphs and they say it works.
[–]tickledpic 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anything works if the girl is attracted to you. I hate long text convos so i dont do them, dont do me any harm. Other guys love texting cause they dont have better shit to do. To each their own. It's important to "do you" because that will keep the girl attracted.
[–]Zoidberg22 -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess. It's just that I've read here that texting can't be built through attraction
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Paragraphs work great with women who aren't that cute.
For really attractive 9's and 10's who have been spoiled and ass-kissed by men their entire lives, they are VICIOUS in social game, it won't work. These women have been inundated with nutjobs and emotionally-unstable men who blow up their phones, threaten them ,and stalk them, and they have various ways to weed out men who can't control their emotions.
they don't respect weak men, AT ALL. And they'll next you and not feel a hint of remorse.
[–]Zoidberg22 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess. The majority of women I approach at school and in general are at least 7s. The problem I think I have is that I never compliment them. Last compliment I gave out to a girl was a few months ago complimenting her style on Instagram. Should I change that up? I do stuff like heavy eye contact and kino but no compliments, so do the women think I'm not interested in them?
I also forget to even contact women that I've approached. Is it just apathy, I'm not gay though. Is it also that I'm just too comfortable on my own then, since I'm inexperienced with women but it's through basically choice of essentially not trying until recently.
[–]TruthSFree 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are doing the wrong thing. And you by contrast are doing the right thing. Why? If you turn on a girl via text. How does that help her? More importantly how does it help you? much better to turn her on, when you are actually there to do something about it.
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