Game is great with girls I just want for one night but it feels like my game disappears when I'm with someone I actually want a relationship with.

phoenixLucifer · 2018-04-14T18:26:51+00:00

What's your game? Do you do like routines and shit?

It maybe that your personality doesn't match your game.

In other words you pick up a girl with game rather than naturally just being yourself.

Which is fine if you want a quick bang, it's purely short term. But if you want a relationship you are increasing the timeline to long term. That changes things.

After awhile your game receeds because you can't keep running the same shit on the same girl, she 'll catch on. And it's exhausting to discover new game, routines etc. to run on her day after day, month after month.

As your game fades you start to reveal your true real natural self. For example, maybe she thought she was getting with a serious type player, but after a few months she realizes she has a goofy playful guy. That game misled her and now she realizes it and that's not what she was looking for. Meaning a relationship is not gonna happen.

This only one possible explanation, there could be others. Don't abandon your game completely you still need it. Just don't let your game be your major selling point, it should be your personality.

Good luck!

LimitedContributor · 2018-04-14T15:31:39+00:00

I guess as far as the girls you really like, you just gotta stop trying and do with you already been doing.

When your game disappear, those are probably the girls that's great at heartbreak anyway, man.

LingeringGnome · 2018-04-14T22:18:11+00:00

Sounds like you smother the girls you want, and don't let it unfold naturally.

You have to keep repeating that first night game in early courtship until she gets feelings.

canarywocoalmine · 2018-04-15T02:09:18+00:00

Go get Corey Wayne 3% man, hes more focused on relationships and has some great ideas. I'm not a ONS kind of guy and his stuff works.

NoRiceForP · 2018-04-15T18:06:31+00:00

I like to divide seduction into three phases.

The first phase is where you have no idea what you're doing and you're going through this long period of rejection. But you are learning. This phase ends when you get your first success.

Que the second phase. This is where you know what you're doing sort of. You start getting some successes and some lays. But for some reason you're still not happy. That's because you still fail. And when you fail in the game of seduction, you fail hard. The game of seduction takes a big toll on our emotional state. And this is the phase where the worst of it comes because often you get so close but you lose it all over some dumb mistake.

That goes on a for a while and your game gets better and better. But no matter how good your technical seduction skills get, you can't get what you're looking for from the very beginning. Remember when you were that loser beta male who gave the hottest girl in school flowers in hopes she would glance at you? Well now even though you can fuck girls like that, what you always really, really wanted was a relationship with her. And you can't get that. So you realize seduction isn't working so you forget all about it and push to the back of your head and work on your own life instead of trying to find someone else. But did you really forget about seduction? This is phase three. Phase three is internalizing seduction by forgetting all about it. It's part of your nature now to look at the girl the right way, touch a girl the right way, escalate the right way, etc. Even though you don't usually consciously think about exactly what do when you're with a girl, seduction has been marinated into your personality. Once you're here you'll find someone.

Title	Game is great with girls I just want for one night but it feels like my game disappears when I'm with someone I actually want a relationship with.
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Date	April 14, 2018 3:19 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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