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[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approach. Even if you get an IOI, it can’t be trusted. I had one co-worker completely ignore me and another grabbed my dick. Both wanted to hook up.
[–]Kenic_In_MD 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This made me laugh really hard dunno why.
[–]WIA20XX 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Stop fishing for an easy bang. Approach
[–]SheanK8 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do man lol that's why I've had some success haha never worked the other way.
[–]PipBoy19 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get most of my eye contact glances at clubs because i'm singing pretty much every song i know and i connect with girls that also know them (just smiling at them while singing the same song) They're often surprised by a guy actually enjoying the music instead of running around trying to grind of someone which i guess inconsciously pull some towards me because they do not see me as a "threat".. Then i can go for a dance and isolate
[–]hunterpua 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try doing something that gets attention like doing a silly dance on the dancefloor or something. You're more likely to get eye contact that way.
[–]t1mman 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thing is, you need to find stuff you like to do, enjoy yourself there THEN, the social aspect will kick in. You talk to people around you (like we've been doing as humans for thousands of years), you 'll socialise, and people will see you as having a good time, and gravitate around you naturally instead of seeing you as "searching for friends" and retract.
[–]SheanK8 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% Agree, that's what works in my experience. My point was I've seen these apparent scientific ways of courting women on a night out such as sharing a smile and eye contact but never worked in my experience.
You look like your there just to find someone which seems desperate rather than having fun.
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