I am walking on the opposite side of the street and see a cute, fit but curvy girl walking in black yoga pants and tanktop. I cross the street, come up from the back saying -

"Excuse me, this is really random, but I think you are really cute that I had to say hi to you."

Her: blushing "oh wow, that is so nice of you."

"I am sure that happens to you all the time though"

Her:"it actually doesn't"

Me: "Yeah we kind of live in a Tinder generation that guys can only talk to a girl with message online instead of in person."

Her: "Yeah that's why I don't have a tinder so that something like this can happen instead."

Me: "Haha exactly, so I should complete the story by taking your hand and spinning you in the street."

  • This was a bit awkward since I didn't do it immediately, but after this, I was like, so I am going to do it, and grabbed her hand and she cooperated and spun.

Me: "You totally are turning into a strawberry and blushing, common I can't be that handsome, I am an ordinary lookikng dude."

Her: "You are actually really handsome."

Me: "I think that's likely the confidence of doing this that you find attractive. So what are you doing this weekend"

Her: "I am actually going to a wedding."

Me: "Whoa, please, slow down. We just met" She laughs, I grab her hand, "Now I have to see your hand to how big your ring finger would be. Actually, this is just an excuse to hold your hand." I hold her hand for a bit and she says, "you are really good." And she slowly pulls her hand away.

  • She tells me where she is from, I tell her a little bit about myself. Shes goes to a community college. I make a joke that I am older and probably wiser than her, and now is opportunity to date a man instead of the boy's that she likely sees. She is surprised I am a lawyer, she tells me what she does and qualifies it while saying, "well I am not a lawyer..." I joke about how I have a secretary, but I don't know what to make her do because shes older than me and I feel weird asking her to do mundane tasks. She makes a joke that I should open a law firm, and I say yeah and you should be my paralegal, and she's like yeah I could be your secretary. I say if that was the case, then I wouldn't get any work done, but hey, lets keep this PG this is just our first time meeting. She is like noooo lets keep this G, not even PG buddy. At the end of it she asks for my number instead of me asking, and I put it in with my name, and add a heart emoji next to it because I am cute like that, and tell her that's how she can remember me by.

This just happened, so this is my best narration of trying to replay it in my mind. Writing this out, I feel like I sounded really smooth (and for the most part it was, but there were moments where I was thinking of things to say). Right after this, I was really elated because I thought it was a great set. That I decided to go back to work. But then I am like, no, abundance, I should already forget about her, because truthfully, this girl is likely 19 (I am 29) when her googled her name (she's actually on the volleyball team for a local community college, hence explaining her amazing ass). And usually when I daygame younger women I've had them later text me that they are not comfortable with the age gap, so whatever. So after I approached two other women, one was married and said if she wasn't her answer would have been different. Another lady I approached was really stylish so I told her and she just said thank you, have a good day, So I didn't further pursue. After that I went back to work. I want to practice abundance mentality, but damn. I am sitting here, waiting for her to message me back (I sent her a message on snapchat (because the call didn't go and I added myself to her snap chat too) saying, "You, me, that cute park with the ducks, Monday say 11:30" And Here I am waiting for her to message back. This part I feel is really lame of me. That is something I need to work on, to not let my happiness be dependent on woman not only externally, but really internally as well.