~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
[deleted]
[–]sexygorilla 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This exact thing happens to me. I literally get more tinder matches as well when I feel confident or if I've recently had sex. I've speculated for a long time that because girls are so social 1 girl is probably in like 5 or more group chats with maybe 6+ girls. This means for every girl you talk to there's probably like a 70% chance that they could ask their friend and they would know you or know someone who knows you, especially at school or even uni
[–]ratherstayback 8 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Exactly! I also keep getting way more Tinder matches.. What you're describing is a graph-theoretical idea, called the small-world phenomenon. Basically it says that every human knows every other human (in the whole world) by only six degrees of separation on average. This means, that it's usually far less, like only 1 (or maybe sometimes 2) degrees of separation in your local area. (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Small-world_experiment)
What you say could also be point that contributes to what I'm talking about, didn't even think of that!
[–]sexygorilla 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Girls also talk way more than you think they do. Girls usually don't think about the random shit we do in social settings like nature of consciousness etc. Not saying the never do but when socialising girls usually talk about what they did recently or boys. Leaving plenty of time to casually bring up the reputations of males
[–]ratherstayback 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Also, not all guys like talking/philosophing about these topics. Apparently, you'd make a good drinking buddy haha.
And yeah, from my experience you're right about girl's topics/gossip/boys. That's probably part of the reason why they NEVER can keep their mouth shut after you had something going with them! All of their friends will immediately know.
[–]sexygorilla 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it depends if you're speaking to low vibration people, obviously you have to adapt to your environment.
[–]CharmFormula 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
when you are in a positive mood (optimistic) you are more likely to think of things as opportunity. You see the world through rose coloured glasses and things that were mundane are now new avenues for pleasure and adventure.
When you are in a negative mood (pessimistic) You judge all opportunity and only see how it cant happen. You see the world as a bunch of obstacles that need to be overcome.
This all has to do with how emotions work. Here is a video about emotions if you are interested. How emotions work video
[–]ratherstayback1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This would be more in support of my first point. Also, thanks for the interesting video.
[–]Kenic_In_MD 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wish i had an explanation but i have noticed the same things. Sometimes ill have like 6 girls text me near the same damn time on the same day all interested. Then slowly drop pfoff 1 by 1 lol
Nice to hear that other people are also experiencing this "phenomenon" and it's probably not just my imagination!
[–]SJW_Valor 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very interesting I'ma keep a lookout for this type of stuff now
[–]SocialReject101 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are from Northern hemisphere, then I have some bad news for you. There is no social conspiracy. It is just nature. Spring brings more sunnier weather (everything seems more colourful), more sunlight, fresh air, blossoms and less depression. Also women dig this stuff amd are more romantical, clothes are more revealing amd it is just the general sense of wanting to copulate when nature awakes from its Winter slumber.
I wasn't talking about some sort of conspiracy, that sentence with the secret group chat containing all of my female connections was obviously a joke.
Yeah, what you're saying is basically my second point. However, it's not always in in spring/summer that I notice this while I'm in "confident mode". That's why I also named some other examples that might contribute.
[–]singlecellfromearth 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
we live in a simulation!
I have the same thing(s) happen to me as well. When it rains it pours!
Still waiting for stupid Morpheus to show up and show me the real world!
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]sexygorilla 8 points9 points10 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]sexygorilla 5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]sexygorilla 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CharmFormula 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]Kenic_In_MD 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]SJW_Valor 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SocialReject101 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]singlecellfromearth 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ratherstayback1 point [recovered] | Copy Link