Brother needs help

WIA20XX · 2018-05-14T14:25:34+00:00

You're just scared of girls. And you're trying to read your way out of facing your fears. Most guys drink their way out of it, so consider yourself lucky.

Two words - Fuck It.

You're going to have to keep throwing yourself to the lions until you figure out she's just as lost and clueless as you are.

Zar_Of_Malta · 2018-05-14T13:33:21+00:00

Man, I am in a very simmillar situation. I had a few failures and some wierd succeses. From my point of view, it's natural, probably we still have to learn through practice.

Hempthusiast · 2018-05-14T14:18:12+00:00

Same boat, 25yo - Good looking - 5'11"... I freak out at the first eye contact...

JoeMarini · 2018-05-14T14:27:15+00:00

Okay from what it sounds like, that in general you need more experience with interacting with women.

A career/looks/hobbies/life purpose are things you want to have as a man BUT these do not entitle you to a woman based on these solely alone.

I would recommend checking out beginner tips from the pick up community on YouTube like Real Social Dynamics and Corey Wayne.

You need field experience to get good with women. Go to bars, clubs, parties, social events, hobbies that include women, go out and socialize with men even to find other men to go out and pickup with. Learn from your experiences, see how you can improve, don’t be afraid of rejection and try to put your ego aside. You have to learn from your failures.

It took me years just to get decent at game. Celebrate even small victories. Don’t follow the mainstream narrative and chase women. Create a social circle with women. Be proactive because no one will show you you have to learn yourself.

I found the pick up community at 21 and it changed my life forever. At 30 I’m still learning, even while in a long term relationship with my beautiful girlfriend.

I went through a lot of failures. Starting out you need to GO OUT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. That’s how you learn the best. Test things out in the field and see what works and what doesn’t.

Good luck, look as it as FUN not logical work.

Check this video out:

https://youtu.be/7qsaxJCvahA

acquired_ · 2018-05-14T16:02:42+00:00

Sounds like you only need to become comfortable with your sexuality and expressing it

plowzedong · 2018-05-14T17:53:56+00:00

"Hey guys. I haven't taken any action to meet girls. What should I do?"

Title	Brother needs help
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	May 14, 2018 1:16 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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