How to meet up with an old ex for sex

Vryk0lakas · 2014-12-24T15:51:51+00:00

Quit lying to yourself.

You still care for her. It does not matter what reasons you have.

If it was a bad breakup and you acted like a little bitch after the breakup, move on.

Now, you want revenge. That's cool...I guess. There's a few ways to go about it, but any attempt will have to appear subtle, and I don't think you could handle that kind of manipulation and douchebaggery.

edwardhwhite · 2014-12-24T16:04:33+00:00

If there are no feelings why do you want to show off to her?

cheeky--kunt · 2014-12-24T14:57:12+00:00

it's hard but move on.

Yu have better chances with someone fresh instead of her who knows all your weak spots. You don't owe her anything, and she should be the one to prove to you instead of the opposite. She has to initiate it if she wants something with you. otherwise you will end up proving herself for her @Time Ho.

erniesmoove · 2014-12-24T16:22:40+00:00

Its obvious you still care for her. I recomend not doing this. If she notices you and shows intentions for you then go with the flow. If not, you will fall back to old patterns cause she knows you. Invest that energy in new girls.

minuscipher · 2014-12-24T16:26:59+00:00

Don't.

Masonjarteadrinker2 · 2014-12-24T16:33:41+00:00

I know how you feel brotha but just let it go, no need to get validation from her.

animalpoo · 2014-12-24T17:08:52+00:00

Similar situation here. So I'm going to say this to you as I'm also saying it to myself. You don't, you deal with it. Undoubtedly you used your ex as a means of motivation to better yourself. Keep doing it, when your face is plastered all over benches of your successful retail business she'll be able to tell your successful and she fucked up with a great man. It's what I'm doing, it's what's driving me.

fnordsnord · 2014-12-24T17:17:23+00:00

I don't believe you. If you still want to show her the new you, there are still feelings for her.

Move on, don't go back.

3rt41 · 2014-12-24T21:16:37+00:00

You just don't.

Mardoo · 2014-12-24T21:29:26+00:00

Yeah I agree, don't do it, it's not even worth it.. find someone else

[deleted] · 2014-12-24T23:02:00+00:00

Play beta. Say what you have to say to build some comfort. Game. Sex. Next.

But, keep your head in the game or otherwise it will blow up in your face.

Title	How to meet up with an old ex for sex
Author	Letitthrowletitthro
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	December 24, 2014 2:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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