WHERE do you escalate (hooking up) when you both live with parents?

rosebudd_ · 2018-06-09T19:28:16+00:00

Sex in cars/Public places is very overrated. Cars are uncomfortable unless you have an SUV. There is no comfort at all, it's dirty and not in a good sense. People who give advice like this are usually guys who don't get laid often say to make them seem like they have exciting sex lives "we banged in the bathroom of a dirty hipster nightclub bro!" Yeah because drenching your sports jacket in urine and other bodily excretions found in public places is very high value....

Honestly, i don't know where you live but i'd just save up and get a hotel once in a while and have something a bit more special and interesting. Yes, it will cost money, but even a cheap motel will do, just so you guys get to really spend time in a more comfortable setting and dealing with people potentially knocking on your door (or window) and stuff.

One of my good mates moved back to Vegas and he's staying with his parents and he tells me about his nightmares, he is now just doing the hotel route, telling girls he is remodeling his place and has to stay at a hotel for now.

Pay a mate $20 to go see a movie and ask him if you can bring ur girl to his place is another option. I have done this, and my mate pretty much rented out his basement since he lived in a downtown area and a lot of our friends learning pick up eventually started pulling often, since we didn't have our own places back then, we'd pay him a cleaning fee and he would be cool with it.
Go camping. Not only makes for an intimate experience between you and the girl, you guys get to shag in the middle of the woods with no one to bug you. You buy a tent once and pay the camp fee which is very cheap. Best of both worlds.

I hope you got some ideas.

yosoyellogan · 2018-06-09T22:12:23+00:00

Since you said “that’s very 17ish” you sound like you’re a little older. Tbh as someone said, I’d probably just bring it up with your dad. He’ll talk to your mom or be smooth about it. Say something like “hey dad, I’ve been seeing this girl for a while, mind if I get some alone time with her?” If you’re younger I doubt that’ll work but if you’re like 20+ then I don’t see why they’d balk you unless they’re super protective or conservative. Your dad will remember his youth and be proud of you probably, and he’ll help you.

Alternatively, just bring her over a few times and play music kinda loud. Don’t hook up the first time, that way you can test out how the fam will react. If they leave you alone the whole time, then make a move next time. If you do this, tell the girl the plan, otherwise she might find it weird if you have her over and don’t make any other moves. If you’ve been dating a while, this won’t be a weird convo

Not really the same, but I was dating this one girl who lived in a tiny house with two roommates. This is a lot of detail haha but we couldn’t bang on her bed because it squeaked too much so we’d do it on the floor or in the shower lol

Last option would be to see a movie that’s been out for a long time at an odd hour. Odds are you’ll have the theater to yourself. Of course, that’s as public as the park aside from it being darker so I don’t think that’s an improvement

baddog992 · 2018-06-09T19:34:34+00:00

A car is good. A motel/hotel? Perhaps a good friends house? Its always difficult when you don't have your own place.

Mecca24 · 2018-06-09T22:29:17+00:00

Great post bro. Only caveat is that we live an hour and a half away so it really isn’t an option. (We’ve been on 4 dates/a month so it’s early in game to visit parents you know?

meltboro · 2018-06-10T03:05:22+00:00

truck bed or tent?

gancep · 2018-06-09T19:29:36+00:00

Definitely car, I would find an empty parking lot, usually a church to escalate. But if you have a little bit of extra money, you could always suggest getting a hotel for the night $60-$70 a night to go rounds? Not bad.

Title	WHERE do you escalate (hooking up) when you both live with parents?
Author	Mecca24
Upvotes	38
Comments	8
Date	June 9, 2018 6:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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