Like, I am getting clear on my life goals. I can make millions and form a company, be a dedicated father and start a family and take care of them, tour in a rock band, travel everywhere, buy a sailboat and circumnavigate the world, become a great artist, I can do some of these things, not all of them. There is not enough time and energy to do all of these things, you have to choose. Like, you are probably not going to be a rock star, cinematographer, mechanical engineer, fortune 500 business operator, family dad, head chef at a restaurant, captain of a Naval fleet, you kind of have to balance things, right?You also have to kind of decide on major life goals, right? "Begin with the end in mind." If we don't have a specific target before we set out on a mission, we're never really gonna get there, right?

So I'm wondering, are women truly worth pursuing and training this field to become like really skilled, for what goal? To get laid? Is that honestly it, like what 90% of guys on here are doing all this for? Some pussy / tits / ass?

Not right or wrong, I'm just truly honestly curious.

Are you guys honestly in it for mainly the hot body parts - know what I mean? Aka just to get laid? People talk about "love" and stuff, but then can't you experience love and friendship and care with members of the same sex, and family, so what's all this seduction stuff about then, if the only difference isn't sexual attraction / polarity?

Is it more? True love? Is it real? Statistically don't most marriages fail and cheating and so many guys report sleeping with married women and "layreports" like that and stuff?

What are you guys goals in regards to women, just fun times, getting laid, and that's like it? I don't even know if that goal is worth pursuing with so much of our time and energy and resources, just to get laid?

I'm wondering if I should even devote a major part AND SO MUCH TIME of my life to this seduction thing. It's exhausting after a while honestly, it might take so long to learn all this stuff, all for what, learning all these skills, for sex?

Thanks for your input community. Making major life decisions here.

I'm not even sure its worth it, what's the goal?

Is the juice really worth the squeeze? Like an ROI, lol.For what goal? What are you guys in it for? Sex? No, then what? Why do people even date if not to get laid? I'm confused about men-women relationships honestly. Are you doing it for much more? What exactly? Marrying a woman in today's "pickup / player" day and age is such a risk. The chances of her cheating on you with a bunch of other guys is so high. I don't wanna be the guy who devotes his whole life energy resources time hard work dedication to a woman or two just to get cheated on and forgotten, right? So I don't even know if at some point I should even attempt to date and head in that direction, right? Like, what's the goal here? /YoungConfusedMan.