What do you do when you're so fucking sick of dating?

judahman8 · 2018-08-07T18:25:33+00:00

I never go on dates, they are fucking lame. Just invite girls to do shit that you actually enjoy doing like if you are having a bbq at your place or a get together. Or to do a hobby that you do anyways like paintball or hitting up the beach with friends.

I like to have girls join me to do regular everyday stuff that I have to do anyways like go to the grocery store. Then we'll go back to my place and cook and hangout with some of my buddies abd drink and chill.

If you are meeting girls online and not picking them up in person then you basically have to go on a date. That's why I don't fuck with online, it's not fun

Kingtorythegreat · 2018-08-07T16:44:21+00:00

You gotta know what you want.

PEthrowaway956 · 2018-08-07T22:34:18+00:00

So the term 'dating' is used in such a rigid way.. a date to most people literally means one of the following.

Going for a coffee
Going for an alcoholic drink
Going for dinner

I have rigid rules... when a girl says anything about 'date' i tell her i dont do 'dates' and explain my reasons as to why (i wax about the stupid way in which the majority of guys will just buy women stuff and spend money on them because they don't value their own time, buy them drinks and pedastalise them) ..

I do one of two very specific things.. and its usually the first thing 95% of the time.. GUESS WHAT IT IS!!!!!

I say.. we are going for a WALK together.. no distractions, no bs.. just raw personality on display and the opportunity to open up to each other. Luckily, I am grateful to say I have the nicest park in London on my doorstep, so this is always my chosen route whenever i go on a 'date' with a girl.. The benefit of this is that by the end of the walk (the perimeter of the park) we are either vibing really fucking well and escalation is a cinch, or i decide that we don't gel and it's on to the next one.

Find a great park near you, or a beautiful place to walk together - use the scenery as a chance to DHV, too. My park his surrounded by beautiful architecture and houses which I'm constantly in awe of as well as the obvious ability to appreciate out being in nature

The other 5% of the time, i will be amenable to the idea (if push comes to shove) of going for drinks.. though I always stipulate it's drink for drink and ensure they buy the first round so as to never set a provider frame - something which is absolutely fucking crucial and women will always respect the shit out of you for.

Otherwise your third option is to grip your dick and yank it till you decide you miss pussy and want to go on another date ;)

Hope this helps

rvega666 · 2018-08-07T17:01:45+00:00

Stop dating and put your mind into other things. The less you think about it, the more mental energy you will have available for things you DO want. They will just surface, don't worry and don't overthink.

Title	What do you do when you're so fucking sick of dating?
Author	aiyy
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	August 7, 2018 4:22 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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