Girl messaged out off the blue, don't know how to respond please help

WIA20XX · 2018-08-08T13:14:17+00:00

Give her a time and place.

Tuesday night, bar next to my apartment.

You need to let your butt hurt go Bro. Your ego will fuck up your results.

hunterpua · 2018-08-08T20:15:04+00:00

Respond with, "I don't know, I'm really busy right now." and make her work to nail you down for a meetup.

A flakey girl much like how you describe in your OP messaged me out of the blue after probably a month and a half of us having zero communication. She said, "Hey, I'm in the club all on my own. Come join me." I said, "Is there something happening there that doesn't happen every night?" She said, "I'm here." I said, "Nah, I'm busy." then she started playfully begging me. You know, when girls act all cute and slightly seductive to try and get you to do things for them. Eventually I said, "I'm not going out but you can come see me on your way home. My place is near XYZ." I'm a night owl and my own boss so I like working late at night and sleeping in. At around 2am she messages me again and tells me she's at the 7/11 close to my place so I give her directions to my place and long story short she came over and fucked me. She fucked me like a wild animal. At one point while riding me hard it looked like her eyes rolled to the back of her head and she was actually drooling.

spacenuts09 · 2018-08-08T14:53:28+00:00

Shes testing your boundaries. You did the right thing when you stopped texting her, that shows value. Now if you agree at the first chance she gives you , thats not attractive. Heres what I reccomend agree to do something that you would do anyway and you re not making an effort for it. Reply with something like 'I am going here *place* to grab something to eat after my workout in the evening (or whatever the fuck) you can join if you want.' And make it pretty casual & short. Leave her sort of wondering if you still like her or not. . 7 times out of 10 she will initiate again and then she is in your frame.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-08-08T13:23:05+00:00

CALL HER. Call her and let her know you’re man enough to have a phone conversation and set up the date through the phone. Also, her verbally agreeing to meet you decreases the chances of flaking.

tab13092 · 2018-08-08T13:53:31+00:00

I mean, what's to lose in agreeing to plans?

Worst case, she flakes and you just write her off for good.

Title	Girl messaged out off the blue, don't know how to respond please help
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Date	August 8, 2018 12:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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