Would it be weird if confess to a girl that I am starting to like her during or right after the first date?

pglass2015 · 2018-08-15T17:43:36+00:00

Don't say that you "like" or "love" them or anything like that. Those words set off red flags. If you wish to convey you are beginning to like them, after they say something funny, or do something you really appreciate, say something along the lines of "wow you're pretty (awesome, funny, cool, sweet, etc.) I think I can see myself hanging out with you more" and leave it at that.

lady-brett_ashley · 2018-08-15T19:32:49+00:00

Agreed. Say something like I like hanging out with you or enjoy talking to you. This sends the message loud and clear unless she is dumb as a brick.

I use these phrases all the time typically very early in dating. Don’t overuse it obviously but it’s cool to communicate that you are cool with how things are going.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-08-15T19:09:38+00:00

No, don't express your feelings right away. You can do it indirectly, there's an old classic routine, "Hey I kinda like you, you're the 5th best person I know." That will probably get an immediate response, it can make you a challenge, to try to get a higher rank.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-15T17:13:41+00:00

Yes. Shows massive neediness and lack of social awareness. Cries of inexperienced.

You don't know her well enough to love her.

But not a seduction question.

The play is to write it down, and show it to her months, weeks, years later in your relationship.

Damon_Martel · 2018-08-16T10:43:35+00:00

sure don't get clingy though

RandomBlokeFromMars · 2018-08-16T11:59:17+00:00

don't confess. initiate physical contact. touch her hands, her arms, when you flirt with her, run your fingertips along her arms, watch her reactions. tell her she smells good, lean in smell her neck, maybe even kiss it. you don't say, you act. and at any point you can see how she reacts. accepting, getting horny, uncomfortable, rejection etc.

she will know you like her.

if you confess BEFORE you get physical, the chance for rejection and friendzone is way higher. be physical, escalate, and she will ask you about your "situation" sooner or later.

it's just what i do. i sometimes managed to get girls horny and accepting, that were not too interested initially. girls are hormone beings. you make her "tingle", you win.

2018-08-17T00:57:13+00:00

It is not weird it is the wrong thing to do.

Stevpie · 2018-08-15T21:03:51+00:00

Disagree with the statements in here. Ive always told girls on dates that I like and enjoy there company and would want to see more of them. Youre being sincere with yourself and towards her.

Title	Would it be weird if confess to a girl that I am starting to like her during or right after the first date?
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Date	August 15, 2018 5:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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