I don't know what's wrong with me, but I can't seem to create tension necessary for closing.

ToxicRocketry · 2018-08-19T19:46:02+00:00

You didn’t escalate properly, that’s why. Girls usually need a bit of warming up before shit happens. You probably waited too long and then haphazardly tried to go for it. Girls don’t just invite guys over at 11 PM in the evening.

Kissofdeathxoxo · 2018-08-19T21:16:22+00:00

Does she have roommates? Tell me everything that went down. What time did you get to her house? what kind of mood was she in? Did you have a plan in your head on how things would play out, how was your body language? When you first saw her how was she feeling tired? Cherry, pissy, When you touched her did you look at her face? Was the vibe great? When did you physically touch her? I hope in the first 10 minutes but it has To be calibrated, where your conversations deep? Did you make any sexual jokes? You could of said can you show me your bathroom, then that's when you escalate, both go to bathroom, look around when you see another door ask if that's her room? You need to take the lead!! Grab her by the hand Let's go in your room, ask if there are any monsters in there first, so she doesn't think she is going for sex, the more subtle you are the better, instead of saying let's go fuck in your room see how that works, girl would say"no" go back to the couch, you were to forward, if she still gives you shit tests, not wanting to push the interaction forward try the 2 steps forward one step back scenario, slowly open the door walk in, tell her to come and sit, then be real with her tell her I feel this connection between us, I hope you feel it to, stare in her eyes, slowly smile wait for her response if she says I feel it to, there has to be no hesitation from you, women will feel if your faking it, they have that keen intuition,

Either she is looking for validation, seeking attention, I wouldn't invest my time elsewhere, she is clearly using you,

bolxrex · 2018-08-19T16:41:31+00:00

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FarmerFred52 · 2018-08-19T21:34:24+00:00

Taken her out for drinks and dancing if possible. I had a date last night. I told her on the phone I didn't want to do the dinner drinks first date. So I bought tickets to mini concert at a dance club. Suggested she uber to restaurant for dinner and I pick her up there we eat and I drive to club. She can decide later if she wants to uber home or have me drive. Within 3 hours at the club we were making out on the dance floor. I drove her home rubbing her leg and then playing with her pussy, till she would make me stop. Then start up again 5 minutes later. Got to her house and ripped our clothes off. I will never not agree to a date where I can't escalate. Dance floor is perfect. I would suggest making her do something for you. You fucked your back up somehow. Its hurts bad, I need you to walk on my back. No lift my shirt up and take you socks off, you need to really dig your feet into my back muscles socks will make your feet slip. If you do this for me I promise to give you the best back and shoulder massage you ever had. Then afterwards tell her you have to leave because you want to be more than friends. No I can't just hang around you, I like you too god damn much, goodbye. Besides its no fun massaging you with a rock hard hard on, Its not funny, I think you're pretty fucking awesome and I want nothing more than to stare into your beautiful eyes and kiss those sexy lips, but I can't so I gotta go. Hey we can be friends later but I gotta figure this out OK. Now she knows she's going to lose you. The ball is totally in her corner. You made it sexual and stated the outline of the relationship. You did it in a non threatening pressuring way. It was humorous and probably made her laugh. You told her she was beautiful. This will tell you her attraction level. On your way to the door turn and say hey, can I have one kiss just to know what it is like to kiss you. Trust me she will contact you. She wil play what could have happened over and over in her head and when she gets horny she will be calling you. Then you set up a date for drinks and dancing. She will know what is going to happen.

PickUpEdgeLord · 2018-08-20T03:14:31+00:00

She's a rebel, she wants some resistance. Next time she invites you over to watch movies tell her your not looking to be just friends and have no interest in wasting your own time with her.

Title	I don't know what's wrong with me, but I can't seem to create tension necessary for closing.
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Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	August 19, 2018 4:34 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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