Does buying a drink for a girl make a difference?

optimal981 · 2018-08-28T13:48:53+00:00

Personally I never buy a girl a drink the night I meet her. If we are going out for drinks sure. When girls ask me to buy them a drink I jokingly flip it on them. “ It’s 2018, aren’t you a feminist? You should buy me a drink.”

Seber · 2018-08-28T13:20:01+00:00

Buying her a drink is neither good not bad in itself. When in doubt, check your intentions. Would you buy your bro a drink in this situation? Go ahead.

You should avoid doing so as an "entry pass" to be allowed to talk to her. If you're having a great time and you feel like giving back, feel free to do so.

quinnmcd · 2018-08-28T19:18:52+00:00

I think about it like this. If a girl figures out she has to do nothing to get something from you, then we will continue to do nothing.

If you're getting her a drink to get something out of it you've already messed up.

I've personally bought girls drinks on dates. Usually make the date better tbh we both loosen up and tend to get more open. I've never bought random girls a drink at a bar or club.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-28T15:24:04+00:00

It really depends.

For beginners, they typically seek rapport with a girl, and their go to is some sort of beta provider move. They pay for things to get attention. So most pickup literature is written with that in mind, and guys shouldn't be providing for random broads with free alcohol

1) The traditional lemme buy you a drink, to a girl that's not already attracted doesn't work to get the girl attracted to you.

2) If you're running good pickup, and getting compliance and qualification, it doesn't hurt your game.

3) If you're running some group game, and you're getting some positive feedback, going for a drink with the target can get you isolation from her group.

In all three of these scenarios, the guy is offering.

It's a different scenario when being asked

ThaBromar · 2018-08-31T00:38:15+00:00

Don’t do it!!! They want free shit

Alex_O7 · 2018-08-28T13:17:52+00:00

this is material for r/askseddit but anyway it is definitly a stupid move to do...

duckofalldukduks · 2018-08-28T17:29:05+00:00

Dont do it. Too many that will flirt to get themselves drunk on your dime all the while you end up empty handed at the end of the night

Title	Does buying a drink for a girl make a difference?
Author	coola426
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	August 28, 2018 1:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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