If you feel like there’s something missing from you’re life, you’re not alone. Everybody has some gap to fill. Everybody feels some void in their life. Society pounds those feelings into us as we constantly compare ourselves to everybody else and wish we had something more.

There’s two ways to handle this. One is to be grateful for what you have already. The other is to get off your ass and go get the necessary things to start filling the void. Both ways work. You should use both. But the second way, especially when it comes to women, is much more fun.

Most people coast through life waiting for something good to happen. They wait for that job promotion. They wait pats on the back. They wait for that “perfect moment” when the “perfect woman” appears in the “perfect situation” and makes things super easy: like when some 10 approaches you to ask for directions and there just happens to be no one else around to hear you hit on her. Um…..if you wait for that “perfect situation” you’ll be waiting forever. And you’ll be leaving your life to chance.

If you want to take control of your future; take control of your bedroom; start filling that void in your life, then you need to approach some girls.

How about a date for this upcoming weekend? How would you feel if you had one? Or would you prefer to just sit on this subreddit Friday and Saturday night complaining?

Go out today and tomorrow and hit on some girls. Walk up to them and say whatever is easiest for you.

You can say:

- Hey I just saw you and thought you were really cute and wanted to come say hi.

- Hey, excuse me, listen this makes me really nervous to do, but I thought you were really cute and I wanted to come say hi.

- Hey I just say you passing by and I thought ‘that’s a little troublemaker I want to know.’

- Hey, excuse me, can you tell me where the nearest Starbucks is so I can take you over there right now for a latte.

- Hi, I’m John, I’m hitting on you right now.

You can say any of those, or any other opening that you want or like. It doesn’t really matter what the opener is. If it’s honest and genuine, it’s better than standing there, sweating, nervous, and watching her walk by.

Go read Fuck It. Then go out there, say Fuck It.

Fuck it. Fuck it. Fuck it. Until you get a date for this weekend.

Then come on the sub and tell everyone how you took control of your life.