How do you stop being jealous?

flyingdinos · 2018-10-24T13:59:44+00:00

You have to understand that he gets what he gets not because he's good looking (although that does play a role to some degree) but mainly because of his aura he gives off. This is controlled by his mental frame.

So being jealous of him would be like being jealous of a hard worker's success. You could get what he gets, maybe not to the extent that he gets, but enough that you don't feel jealous of him.

akareeno · 2018-10-24T15:20:26+00:00

Realisation of the fact that worse could have happened. You could have been 5'5" with an unattractive face and I am virgin at 22,you could have been me

Everyone suffers to some magnitude in life.

2018-10-24T15:23:45+00:00

You stop giving a fuck.

Rusianmophia · 2018-10-24T18:15:03+00:00

This might seem cliche but stay true to who you are and the right woman will find you and love you for who are

injesterstrust · 2018-10-24T15:25:04+00:00

You WILL learn too accept that it's just life. Handsome guys will always have sex lives that the rest of us can't evne fathom. I've honestly been cursed with handsome friends lol. More than one of my friends are male model territory, and the hotness of the girls who throw themselves at them is just crazy. But I feel less jealous now than I did say 5 years ago. I guess you slowly get slightly numb too it all having seen it every weekend, with every hot girl, for years and years in a row

One thing that also helps (stop any women hatred) is to remind myself that us guys are just the same! We only want to bang hot girls. Well guess what. They only want to bang hot guys! Life. So we really can't be mad at them. Would be hypocritical

_BatsShadow_ · 2018-10-24T22:00:10+00:00

This isn’t as easy as it sounds, but I’ve learned to be comfortable in my own skin I’m fine with who I am. That has come with a change of attitude and I feel better. Don’t stop improving yourself, but be confident in what you do, take pride. Better things (not necessarily just women) will come.

2018-10-24T14:44:09+00:00

Hey man. If you want some help with this then DM me and let’s have a proper chat. I’ve been where you are now and can offer some advice

ToxicRocketry · 2018-10-25T08:23:15+00:00

Realize that becoming “good-looking” is as easy as getting into good shape, grooming and hygiene and practicing charisma. And the last one is the most important of all. I learned that the hard way.

You too can be like him but it will take work.

Title	How do you stop being jealous?
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Upvotes	10
Comments	22
Date	October 24, 2018 1:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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