How do you go about hitting on a girl at the gym?

2018-12-05T02:20:48+00:00

Ask her how many sets she has left and gave her response. go indirect very slowly

pilipinonguci11 · 2018-12-05T02:32:32+00:00

Maybe approach when you're walking outside the gym?

I'd say as a general rule it's not a good idea to do an approach at the gym, but that doesn't mean it can't be done. If you see a good looking girl, feel free to give her a compliment and see how she responds. If she responds enthusiastically, then try to continue the conversation

mseand · 2018-12-05T02:46:02+00:00

I only approach at the gym if I receive IOI’s. Be careful and make sure your game is on point to avoid having a scathed reputation and being known as the weirdo who can’t converse properly

kril89 · 2018-12-05T02:16:26+00:00

Just don't

diwolute · 2018-12-05T02:55:02+00:00

This worked for me:

I waited until she was in a pad doing abs. She need to mentally count the number of repetitions, so I stood near her, and started counting randomly: 50, 23, 45, 78, 32...

(obviously, I was synchronized with his abs)

She started laughing. I presented myself, asked her age and occupation, and I was already in.

failatsomething · 2018-12-05T04:38:19+00:00

"Hey we should workout sometime. Let's start with toe curls ;)"

Twobithatter · 2018-12-05T08:00:35+00:00

I saw one guy go up to a girl the other day; he told her he thought she was cute and if he could get her number. She said no that she had a boyfriend. Girls at the gym, for the most part, no they’re attractive. A lot of guys will give them stares and they’ll notice it. I’ve made a few gym approaches but nothing crazy. I normally look for IOI like someone else said. A common one is working out close to you. It’s like as soon as you pick a machine she’s right next to you. At least that’s one of the main things I look for before doing an approach. Then when I do approach I try to avoid sexual tension and go for a friendship style opening. Then I’ll work on the sexual tension as she gets more comfortable. I play it at a longer pace but I find it more successful

ProtoplasmGladiator · 2018-12-05T05:14:17+00:00

Ok man I'm gonna tell you how to approach a woman ANYWHERE. Nobody will ever tell you this.so be sure to save it.

First of there's three main ways of approaching a woman. Direct - Indirect - and Friendly

An example of direct which I'm sure you already know would be something like, "Excuse me, I'm sorry I just thought you were cute and I had to meet you."

An example of indirect, “Do you know what time the stores around here close?" Or asking for directions.

An example of Neutral is, "I just noticed you have this creative and artistic vibe about you, are you an artist?"

Now begs the question of how do you know which to use? Simple. Use a tester BEFORE you say your conversation starter.

A tester is basically saying "Excuse me..."

If she smiles anything like these 3 - 🙂😃😬 - You go direct

If she's frowning like - 😕🙁☹️👿 - you go indirect

If she's smirking a bit or looks "neutral" like - 😏😐 - then you go friendly. (That first emoji represents flirting but I meant it in a neutral way, like she's holding back a smile almost.)

Title	How do you go about hitting on a girl at the gym?
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