Stupid question: How do i meet women in my college?

Jkiss99 · 2018-12-06T05:14:00+00:00

The one thing I always do is the first day of classes I walk in and sit down next to the most attractive girl in the room. Ive struggled with social anxiety for years but this is actually pretty easy for me. She most likely wont know anyone else and she'll be just as nervous as you are. If you can strike up a conversation and then continue to sit next to her for the next few days you'll eventually get into the habit of sitting next to each other. A lot of my courses involve small group projects. Once you get to know her it'll be easy to ask if she'll work on the project with you and you can ask for her number.

Also meeting girls who live in your dorm building isn't too hard, especially if you have a common space in your room. Also having female friends who can ask to set you up with their friends or sorority sisters can be super helpful.

My school is also majority female and doesn't have clubs. Every school is going to have a party scene of some sort. At mine most parties are thrown by fraternities and sports teams, so joining one is helpful but not crucial. As long as you have connections that can get you into the parties, hooking up with girls there really isn't that hard.

While I've personally been striking out like crazy lately (I'm convinced Im cursed) the biggest help in the past has been the way I dress. Not only when I go out but day to day in classes and such. I'm amazed how many grown ass men roll into class in what looks like the dirtiest pair of sweats they could find on their floor or simply have no clue how to dres themselves.

Hope this helps

pilipinonguci11 · 2018-12-06T05:17:37+00:00

If you really did "Hit on every girl", as you say, and didn't get any results then it's time to both seriously rethink how you're doing approaches and how you're presenting yourself in general. If you're a fat fuck who has dorito stains on your shirt and smell like mountain dew, then obviously cold approaching isn't going to work well at all.

I'd recommend you read "Models" by Mark Manson

I also recommend you watch the following videos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6V-G1CE1xc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8_TBjaiNUk

elegant_ejaculation · 2018-12-06T07:22:23+00:00

Do you mean campus clubs? I believe you can start your own. Just center it around something girls would like (harry potter, dancing, anime, etc). And once you have a club, you're the the leader, the guy everyone comes to, the guy all the chicks look up to.

If you're school has sports events; that's one too.

To appear less creepy, you can approach groups of girls (2 or more), so that they have the strength of numbers. They'll be less defensive naturally and you'll look confident.

You can also take a longer approach since it's a school, and you'll likely be seeing the same women over and over. You don't necessarily have to seal the deal right away. Foster as many acquaintances with these girls as you can, and let them build up so that the ones that are interested or amenable to you naturally rise to the level of "flirtatious friend" and then that is when you can make your move.

Title	Stupid question: How do i meet women in my college?
Author	Jeff1211
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	December 6, 2018 4:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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