Gentlemen, just a friendly reminder that Seduction isn't going to solve all your problems.

Learning how to attract a girl, confidently make a move, and ultimately make her your date are an incredible set of tools to have. No question that this stuff is a gift.

But before you even achieve that, you've got to pay attention to basic social norms and social skills.

Be able to read the vibe. Take a step back and try to understand the other person. Have general courtesy and manners. Be respectful and friendly to everyone around you. Etc.

If she sees that you lack a fundamental set of social skills -- it doesn't matter how many Internet seduction tricks you learned -- she ain't buyin' man. Here's a common conundrum I'm seeing...

You:

  • Haven't developed your personality and interests

  • Aren't a people-person everyone enjoys being around

  • Can't read social situations and lack social awareness

Also you:

  • "Why is game so hard!? Why do women reject meeeee!?"

Learn to be a people-person first. Develop your interests and sense of humor. Read some books on the topic. Take a hard look in the mirror and ask yourself where you can improve. Then come back and try to date some women. I guarantee it'll be a lot easier. I guarantee you'll start getting IOI's left and right when you know how to be gregarious.

If you don't learn basic social skills, and I hate to say this, but you deserve all the failure you get. It's the age of the internet, fellas and information/mentors/courses are everywhere.

Good luck.

-Laz.

ps: My Snapchat is now active again and I’ll be doing daily segments on social skills/people skills. My username is SnapSocialGuru. Get pumped!