First off some backstory: Shy kid up until middle school broke out of my shell in the 8th grade.Became a part of the popular crowd junior year partied a lot had some experience with girls. Graduate high school with a 2.2 GPA , go to a state school got a 4.0 and transferred to a top 20 public uni. Got a degree in economics but focused more on studying than networking and such. Also spent a great deal of time at the gym which I regret now. My senior year I left my comfort zone , made some good friends established myself. My problem I think has been my morality and maturity level relative to my peers. I hate social media and only had a Facebook in college , never realized how much not having an Instagram or Snapchat hurt me socially. Had some hookups ( oral sex not PIV) and didn’t like the idea of it caused lots of drama. I grew up with overbearing parents and with my personality knew getting into the partying lifestyle in college would just get me in to trouble and wanted to make it. Got a good job out of school making 50k + bonus with no debt. The next two years or my life were terrible. I lost my job , tore my acl , had health issues and parents going thru a nasty divorce. I hooked up with girls in college and more so high school and most were with very little effort. To put in perspective made out with over 20 girls , had 8 in bed with everything but PIV. As crazy as it sounds I wanted to hold off for a serious relationship for sex but now that’s changed completely with my parents divorce. Over the past month I’ve hooked up with 3 girls , one a hot 21 year old. I’m at the point now where my lack of sexual experience is a major sense of insecurity. This was my choice and I have to live with it and unfortunately turned the girl off by being too clingy after the hookup, is there any way I can turn it around ( btw I’m 24)?