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[–] points points points 56 years ago | Copy Link
It's fucking lame but that's what happens when you try to get girls while sitting in the front of your computer.
Go out and burn, no other way to learn.
[–]Spiderjoy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude, I just started this week. And I am trying to get dates so I can go out in the field. That's the whole reason I am structuring something so I can minimize mistakes.
Don't see what's wrong with starting somewhere...
[–]Soultrane93 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
so I can minimize mistakes
That's the wrong approach. You will only get results if you try to maximize your mistakes. Burn yourself, get rejected, get laughed at.
[–]tombreck2 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And I am trying to get dates so I can go out in the field
You've got it backwards; you need to go out in the field before you start getting dates. I thought you said you read Mystery method ten times. He explicitly says that you should be getting numbers for practice and getting experience.
[–]SeekingTheWay0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
mistakes are the only way to truly learn
[–]kingofpoplives0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
Just get experience. Analyzing is not helpful past a certain point. Your game can't get strong until all this stuff is natural and comfortable and you can only get to that point with direct experience.
[–]Merwebb0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hit on women on a pub, on the street, on the subway. Quit that online shield and go to the real world
[–]FrameWalker0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What I plan to do on date is: Shake her hand, and lightly hold it until we get a seat (kino) Make sure she sits beside me, not opposite (to make kino easier) DHV stories Occasional negs Palm reading and cube (more kino and comfort) Try to playfully kiss her on the cheek on the end of the date (kino)
What I plan to do on date is:
Shake her hand, and lightly hold it until we get a seat (kino) Make sure she sits beside me, not opposite (to make kino easier) DHV stories Occasional negs Palm reading and cube (more kino and comfort) Try to playfully kiss her on the cheek on the end of the date (kino)
Ok good you've studied. Now stop reading and go out and do it. Do not think about your plan and go through the checklist. After 15 approaches you can sit down reflect, and go from there.
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