Been talking to this long distance girl for about 2yrs. Started off as friends, but I guess it got romantic after awhile. I think she is cool and hilarious..fun to talk to. Kind. I haven't met a girl with all these qualities before, that have been interested in me. I know alot of ppl consider long distance relationships bs, but I really did feel a strong connection with her.

I stopped talking to her for months for some reason, then she initiated contact and started being flirty. Last year, she invited me over because her parents went out of town, couldn't make it. Some months later, she admitted she got back with a so-called ex around the same time. The other day, she asked about my sex life and I lied and said I haven't had sex for a few months, when it's actually been a year. She told me the last time she had sex was over a month ago and she guesses she considered that guy an ex too lol. She also asked me how big I am and how she is open to make a sextape with me.

So basically, this girl only cares about hooking up with random dudes she meets online, when her parents go out of town. I think she only cares to hook up with me too, nothing more..but I don't think I'm interested in that. I liked this girl well enough to tell my friends and family about her. She claims to really care for me, but I dunno anymore. I just feel pissed off and sad. I feel like a fool.

Just curious on hearing opinions on what the right thing would be to do? What I feel like doing is calling her out on her BS then just completely ignoring her and going back to the misery of being alone, without a girl to talk to.