How do you approach a woman in a CLUB?

obviousyak · 2019-02-17T16:02:32+00:00

Man, that shit was on easy mode for you. Np though it happens a lot, simplest move I like to do in a situation where eye contact is made like that is go up extend your hand out and ask to dance. Just go to a club with your boys/girls and have fun. If something like that happens again just walk your ass over and ask her to dance.

SexlessNights · 2019-02-17T18:58:18+00:00

You need to set yourself apart.

Approach her on all 4s

helio203 · 2019-02-17T23:16:41+00:00

Im a rando that know nothing of the world.

I think the best route for these kind of situations is to never lose your frame of reference, obviously much easier said than done. I think one of the most interesting things a man can do is be them selves(in a socially acceptable form, but the crazy thing is that "socially acceptable" is one of the most flexible concepts ever). The thing that makes it interesting is that your perspective is unique and separate from the other person's. people are lonely and people are social because they get lonely, anyone can help satisfy that loneliness you just have to be present and not be lost in thought/yourself.

You froze because you didn't know what you as a person, would do when a girls decides to grind on you. you can either "create" an idea of self by yourself or allow your self to loosen up and allow yourself to form (but this needs time and experience)

Know who you are and what you are there for, every situation is different, but there was definitely something for you to do in your situation. what were you doing alone at the club? were you there to meet a girl or just to spend the evening? when you know what you want then the world becomes a different experience, one where you act rather than simply observe.

though you may avoid that particular situation some personalities just work better in different places.

*note I'm as lost as you are in this regard I know i've done some thing similar in the past and I hate it.

Paracetanormal · 2019-02-17T14:58:06+00:00

A similar thing happened to me 2 years ago, I have no advice to be honest, but I'm Portuguese as well and I want to know what to do in these type of situations as they don't come by too often. Were you in lisbon by chance? I want to game there but I don't know the best clubs to do so atm

Funkimonkey · 2019-02-17T15:29:13+00:00

You have to just make yourself do it man. There’s no clearer signal than what she did. Just dance and have fun. Super difficult to talk in a club anyways so just dance with her.

There’s really no other advice then to find a way to get your mind to move your feet. That’s it.

TheWaffleMan96 · 2019-02-17T20:01:57+00:00

Hey! Whats up? *smile* Whats the best drink in this place?

bitxoin · 2019-02-17T21:46:39+00:00

just slap the bitch

PolesWithGoals · 2019-02-17T22:54:30+00:00

Why the fuck would you go to a bar or club and not get drunk? That’s literally the point

Aeon199 · 2019-02-18T06:20:08+00:00

Well, are you into the ass thing, etc?

Title	How do you approach a woman in a CLUB?
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Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	February 17, 2019 2:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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