Hi all so I’ve been a long term lurker of this sub and like many of you out there I haven’t actually done any approaching. Sure I watch videos read books etc.. But I was too scared to actually do anything. Today that changed so I started by trying day game in a shopping centre and set myself the goal of complimenting 3 women that was it. After 20 mins of wandering around aimlessly and getting nervous I approach a girl and extremely awkwardly say hey I think your attractive she didn’t know what to say nor did I so we walked away. I calmed myself down and decided it may be easier to start by just asking for directions instead this proved much better. I approached two more girls and the last made a 2 minute conversation as she didn’t know the shopping place well as she just moved here so talked about why she moved here.
Overall it was a success for my first time approaching even though I couldn’t actually complement a girl. Admittedly there is a lot to learn and improve but I’m confident I’ll get there. It’s all too easy to watch, read content as I have for maybe a year but all doesn’t mean anything unless you’re actually doing it!