I am thinking about quitting the red pill, does anyone want to offer me some advice?

Archwinger · 2015-02-22T00:02:35+00:00

The Red Pill isn't a thing you "start" or "quit." It's just a bunch of guys with some ideas about stuff. You've read some ideas, improved some aspects of your life, and now you're sick of this little corner of the internet and have better shit to do.That's great!

Maybe you'll stop by later in life. Maybe not. But if you're better for your visit, that's awesome.

Top_Ozone · 2015-02-21T23:34:27+00:00

I'm 16 by the way.

Sounds like you think you know calculus because you passed pre-algebra.

Do what you think is best for you. You are the master of your own life.

FrameWalker · 2015-02-21T23:13:00+00:00

I say go ahead. The sidebar is the core of TRP and once you've read it, no need to check in here all the time. You can come back in a year to reflect if needed.

StasisNation · 2015-02-22T04:43:53+00:00

Meh. Think about it like this.

For all it's stupid bullshit, Tumblr is also a pretty interesting place, filled with useful information and facts. But you wouldn't sit there and let them spoonfeed you bullshit like HAES or that simply by virtue of being male you're everything wrong with the world, even if you try to help.

There are plenty of shitposters that undermine the red pill movement, and shitposters that ruined feminism in real life. But without feminism, some basic female liberties wouldn't have been awarded to them, like being able to vote or not having to get beat by their husbands.

The Red Pill is, at it's basic core, a proper manual on how to live your life as a successful man at this day and age. How to be successful with women, how to better yourself, how to hold frame in spite of increasing shit tests and sadly, reason after reason not to get married. I'm still personally pro marriage, but I'm aware the chances of a successful now-to-end-of-life marriage has the same odds as winning the lottery.

The problem is, ideologies attract people who want to believe something. Tumblr was ruined by SRS shitposters and third wave feminists, while TheRedPill constantly has to contend with hordes of angry men or real misogynists. I'm actually quite happy with the moderation at TRP, they do their best to remove hate posts or low quality posts, something Tumblr is completely incapable of and encourages.

Hey, women are the weaker sex. You can take that as an insult, as I'm sure most women would. Nobody wants to be told that men are simply physically stronger on average than women, or possess a likelihood of higher or lower IQ spectrum than the average woman's, but that's the simple truth. You know you could probably beat up any of your female friends. Do we really need to say that, or be proud of it? I'm not exactly, but the truth is the truth. Don't feel bad about it.

What I'd say is, people all arrive to TRP at the same phase: Denial. They move up to anger when they realize we're just trying to state the facts or expose the reality of today's women. Then they get sad and start to give up. Followed by bargaining "Oh, not all women are like that, they can't be. I know I can find one!", and finally acceptance that the world is just not the way they want it to be. The trouble is, the influx of TRP arrive as angry, women blaming scrubs who blame them for their own problems. Sadly, you're not even there yet if you can accept what you've read here. Denial stage for you.

Here's my personal position. I'm dating a nice catholic university girl. I fuck her senseless and use her as a personal whore when we're alone, and generally speaking I spend my time being cocky and aloof whenever I around her. She really is a sweet girl, and she loves being around me. Maybe one day we'll get married. In the meantime, her number one complaint is all the sad losers who give her stuff on videogames or do her homework, or complain about me to her. I'm not bothered by this. My life would easily go on without her, and I know that, and as angry as it probably makes you she's told me time and time again she'll never leave me, that she can't, that she needs me no matter what etc etc etc whatever. I have absolutely no worries about those idiots trying to win her over with roses and taking her work shifts. EDIT: To clarify, I could be stepping over myself trying to wait on her every need, and then she'd view me as one of those other idiots, and I'd be lumped in with them while she moves onto the next guy who knows how to actually take care of a girl.

Now, if you want to leave the red pill, which you're quite welcome to, just remember that you're going to be the sad loser wondering why the girl you dream about is with that god damn asshole and why she won't just see how amazing and special you are.

You don't have to be an asshole to be "red pill", but you do need to quit your bitching and get back to reading the sidebar.

Throwaway420swagyolo · 2015-02-21T23:30:01+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ypnv3/red_pill_antibiotic_nuke_come_and_feed/

This post is in the sidebar. I have a problem with one point. Women don't think they are better than you. Narcissists think they are better than you. Saying western women think they are better than you is bullshit. They treat you like shit because you're an asshole,300 lb neckbeard or maybe they just are in a bad mood. Some guy gets manipulated by women for his whole life, he turns to red pill. He stops being a niceguy^ ® and starts lifting, what do you know women start to like him. How is that the woman's fault? I would treat a fat girl differently than a hot girl. Maybe western men are in the same situation as western women.

dregofsociety · 2015-02-22T03:54:30+00:00

No worries. At the age of 40, you will hate women anyways because you will have trusted and gotten betrayed.

oldredder · 2015-02-22T04:46:06+00:00

There's nothing to quit but the truth.

If you want to quit the truth and go back to having society lie to you all day every day with no remorse and no actual good results - go for it.

The steak is juicy because the Matrix tells me it is.

REDDIT, which is the container for 'theredpill' and 'asktrp' is not "the red pill" nor are the subreddits, these or ANY. The true red pill is just looking at the world for what it is, not what it says it is.

Just like you wouldn't trust a coral snake to actually be safe coral, it's a fucking snake and one of the most dangerous in the world.

That's all. You don't have to waste time online in conversations to be red pill.

The only "quitting" really is to deny the truth of the world while it lies to you, actively engaging your every need, sense & want with lies.

That's all.

realdev · 2015-02-22T05:03:53+00:00

Six months is long enough to learn most of what you need to.

In high-school a lot of girls are still innocent / good people.

This changes in your twenties and especially late-twenties and thirties.

Most women you would try to date in your late-twenties or thirties will play an obscene amount of games.

So that's why you aren't resonating with the material here. Which is a good thing, lucky for you to be exposed so young.

you_take_the_veil · 2015-02-22T23:24:54+00:00

There's nothing wrong with taking off. If you're spending all your time actually improving your life, you end up with very little time to waste on forums of any kind. I've observed a direct correlation between my actual refocussed efforts and the times I'm completely removed from this board. As long as you've learned what you needed to here, be a man and go apply it to your life.

It's very smart of you to recognise the potential toxicity of the angry members of this movement. I think simply by taking a small dose of reality concerning the sexual nature of men and women, and how to become the best version of yourself at your early age, you're already way ahead of the game.

Stay calm, stay in control, remember the positive things you've learned here, and work every day to be a better man and improve yourself. Godspeed.

Title	I am thinking about quitting the red pill, does anyone want to offer me some advice?
Author	Throwaway420swagyolo
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	February 21, 2015 10:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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