Posted my previous FR here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bdcvsc/fr_sunday_daygame_7_approaches/

Apparently there was a problem with creepy openers and girls not knowing what I want from them.

To fix the issue quickly I just decided to use one canned opener and then add my observations. So I would start each conversation from: "Hi! I thought you were cute/pretty and I would talk to you".

This mage a huge difference in the quality of interactions. Did 9 approaches, 2 of them were hilarious, 1 closed.

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#1 - girl in a beautiful dress with anxious face walking towards me.

me: *opener*

her: What? I'm in a hurry.

*leaves without even looking at me once*

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#2 - girl walking very slowly, talks on her phone, puts it down and walks onto the other side of the street.

me: *opener*

she: *laughs* I'm sorry, I have a very stressful phone call coming so I don't want to talk to anyone

me: want me to help you with meditating?

she: *laughs* no!

me: take a deep breath and relax

she: laughs and actually relaxes a bit

me: what's the call about?

she: a job interview

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*We talk about jobs, she asks me where I work and stuff (comfort phase).*

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she: what are you doing here anyway? walking up to people saying "you're nice, you're nice etc.?

me: yes! I look around, hunt for my victims and then tell them they're nice. Or horrible, it depends.

she: *laughs*

me: actually I'm going to the gym for a workout (truth)

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*Conversation about sports*

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me: ok, how about you give me your number

she: *laughs and rejection is visible on her face before she starts talking*

me: or even better, linkedin, I'll ask you how the interview went

she: I have a boyfriend and he's gonna be mad that someone is messaging me

me: oh, that's very controlling of him

she: yes, he's very jealous

me: it sucks if he's that jealous

she: but we're happy together

me: well, I do not pick up girls with boyfriends, so good luck, it was nice talking to you

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#3 - girl wondering around in a dreamy way.

me: *opener*

she: oh, I'm here with my aunt and sister

me: got it, want me to make it look like I'm not picking you up?

she: laughs, oh, I have a boyfriend

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*We talked a bit more and she left.*

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#4 - girl walking towards me

me: *opener*

she: *blushes* oh, thanks, but someone's waiting for me over there

me: your boyfriend?

she: no, my friends

me: then give me your number and let's talk when your friends aren't waiting for you

she: the fact that it's not my boyfriend waiting for me doesn't mean I don't have one

me: well, what if you break up, you'll hate yourself for missing such an amazing option *pointing at myself*

she: *laughs* ok, if we break up I'll come and try to find you

me: sure, I'll be somewhere in the city, see you

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#5 - metalhead girl standing near a shop

me: *opener* (with the addition of "weird")

her: oh, actually I'm waiting for...

*here comes her boyfriend*

me: oh hey man, I was just telling your girlfriend she's ok

he: oh, I agree, she's pretty ok

me: good choice, man

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We start talking about music with this guy

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he: so what do you do here?

me: I study and work

he: cool. I just smoke weed all day. It sucks so much, because I just smoke all the time so lately I've been thinking about getting out of the house and walking somewhere.

The conversation was hilarious, the girl was staring on her phone and I was having a friendly convo with this weirdo, loved them 😄

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#6 - looked at the girl that was passing me, she looked at me for a second. Turned around a few seconds later and ran up to her.

me: *opener*

she: *smiles as I deliver the opener and extends her hand* Thank you! Actually I'm going on a date with someone, I confused you with this person so I even saw you as you were walking.

me: Haha, I saw you too. Whole second of you looking at me. Signal received, so here I am.

she: *laughs*

me: If I look similar to this person - it means you have a great taste.

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We laughed a bit more, wished her a happy date and left

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#7 - girl walking towards me

me: *opener*

she: *laughs*

me: *notice she's holding Neil deGrasse Tyson's book, so I add: "and as I see you're also interesting"

she: why?

me: the book. I suppose you're studying physics or something

she: no I don't study, I'm on a gap year, I just love books

me: oh, cool, a gap year. Haven't met anyone on a gap year yet

she: actually I'm in a hurry, I have to go in that direction

me: ok, whatever, I have a few minutes to walk with you

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We talk about gap years, studies and books

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me: ok, I have to go back now, how about you give me your facebook and we talk about physics later?

she: *laughs* physics?

me: and love

she: *laughs* love? definitely not

me: there's lots of physics in love, it's interesting

she: I don't have facebook

me: what communication channels do you prefer?

she: *laughs*

me: linkedin?

she: I don't know what this is

me: It's for looking for jobs. You'll find out after the gap year.

she: Actually I cannot because I have a boyfriend

me: you took so much time to say it - I could see how you were making him up

she: what? I'm not making him up!

me: what's his name?

she: *laughs* come on, I'm not telling you

me: I'm just kidding

she: haha, me too. Oh. I mean not about the boyfriend

me: see! I knew it!

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It was hilarious and I ended up wishing her a happy date and left.

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#8 - girl walking past me. She was beautiful but I wasn't sure she's my type. Ran up to her.

me: Hey!

she: hey

me: don't you recognize me?

she: no

me: me neither, opener

she: *mumbled something*

me: *extending my hand*

she: *gives me a short handshake*, thank you

me: thank you? I thought you were gonna say your name

she: <name>

me: you're not from Poland, aren't you?

she: no, <other country>

me: cool *start speaking in that country's language because that's where I'm from*

she: *stunned and suddenly had a lot of interest*: are you also from there?

me: no, I just thought I'd learn the language

she: really?

me: no, I'm kidding, I'm from there. I think you're from <city>

she: *jaw drop, turned out I guessed her city*: "wtf?"

me: well, it's written on your face "I'm from <that city>"

she: don't know if it's complement

me: depends on whether you like the city

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We talked more, she was asking questions, I stopped, so now we were no longer walking.

She told me the clarity of my language was amazing, also told me she was scared when I came up to her, it was too unexpected (maybe I should work on it, but it's better than being ignored)

Easy facebook close there.

She looks nice, not sure if she's smart though, guess we'll have to see 😄

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#9 - girl waiting for someone

me: *opener*

she: I'm waiting for my bf and he's not gonna like it if he sees you

me: that's what I thought but I was wondering if it's some other occasion

she: you're not from here, aren't you?

me: I'm astonished how fast you picked that up

she: it was easy to hear from your accent.

me: how long are you together?

she: three years

me: that's nice. I've had a 4 year relationship before. Ok then, have a nice date. *Extending my hand*

she: *shakes the hand*

me: you have a very firm handshake, see you

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Summary

I know canned openers are meh, but this actually worked better than saying whatever comes to mind and actually most interactions were fun. Thanks for reading and any suggestions are welcome :)