There are plenty of men who only want one special woman in their lives.

Just one girlfriend - who will love and cherish them forever.

Some guys might not even care whether she's particularly beautiful...

Personally, we have no problems with that.

I'd still recommend they ALL learned pick-up - and discovered how to get good with women in general

Here are the two main reasons why.

Eliminate neediness

When you only one woman comes on the scene every so often, us men tend to mess it up, by acting too needy or desperate.

You may have seen "neediness" or "desperation" listed among the least attractive traits that a man could show.

This is because it communicates your lack of other romantic options.

"If no other women want him, why should I?", she thinks.

When you have no other women on the scene, it's only natural for you to:

  • text too often;
  • be too available;
  • supplicate to her;
  • let her overstep boundaries;
  • viewing her as a perfect princess (and overwhelming her);
  • experience prematurely intense feelings (and scaring her away);
  • waste tons of mental energy wondering how to get her out on a date.

Even though you're just a nice guy who’s desperate for a girlfriend, these problems all lead to you being labelled as 'creepy'. It's why you get friend-zoned, ghosted or blocked.

Sound familiar? The cure is to GO OUT MORE, meet loads of women and get good with women in general.

Create stronger relationships

Even if you manage to find a relationship, it's likely to turn to shit if you don't get good with women in general first.

Perhaps in previous relationships, you've noticed women misbehave after the "honeymoon period" has worn off.

Maybe she nags more. Stops dressing nicely. Makes extra demands. Starts turning down sex. This is the typical long-term relationship

Deep down, this is because she knows you won't leave. She knows you don't like being single. She knows you couldn't find another woman as good as her. She knows she has the power in the relationship.

Sound familiar? The cure is to get good with women in general.

If you were a true alpha-male who could easily replace her, do you think she would cause as much trouble in the relationship? No! She'd do everything in her power to keep you.

The sad truth

The truth is: most men don't know how to get good with women in general.

That's why men live desperately lonely lives when they're single. That's why they only sleep with seven women on average, That's why they shack up with the first one who will accept them. That's why women have the power in the typical relationship. That's why she gets sick of him and leaves.

Even married dudes with kids suffer this fate. Look at the divorce rate...

To avoid this, the cure is to get good with women in general. But most men won't bother. For the same reason, they don't go to the gym or give up smoking. They consider the short-term comfort of not practicing, rather than the long-term discomfort of being miserable and lonely.

Of course, that's good for those who do bother. We're the ones who will stand out just by not showing this creepy needy behaviour ;)

I've co-launched WhatsApp and Telegram groups for men who want to become incredible with women. Hundreds of guys sharing their success stories and getting feedback on their sticking points. A real brotherhood. If you'd like to join a group, drop me a private message with your phone number (WhatsApp) or username (Telegram).