I'm a bit stuck. I just can't generate enough attraction consistently to get to the level of sexual activity I desire.

I've been aware of the seduction community since I was 12, and reading/practicing/stepping away in various ways over the last decade. I have honed myself at this point and I'm happy with who I am, but also believe that life is about constant improvement.

The last two years of my life have been the best for me, in a lot of ways, but especially in my sex life. Currently I'm not in a dry spell per se, but I am not satisfied sexually.

I live at a hostel at an Australian beach town, surrounded by beautiful women and, although I do have some lovely friends, I don't have even an occasional lover. The men out here are just as beautiful as the women, perhaps this is working against me. There's sexy musicians on every street corner, hunky surfer dudes with long hair stepping out onto the beach, Italians and French and South Americans everywhere. I am a very funny, pretty social, interesting and active, kinda cute, short American with a little beer belly. I do stand up at my hostel, I teach writing workshops, I spin fire, make music, etc. But yeah, no one really seems interested in me sexually. I don't really know what to do about it.

Last year I was in a polyamorous relationship with a stripper, would make out with like 6-7 girls when I went to parties, had threesomes, etc. Here, for example, I meet a girl who I think I'm vibing with and we hang out a few times. But at night, she's got some ridiculously talented musician who comes over. And then the next day, a totally different musician shows up to share a tent with her. Or some girl walks up to me and says I'm cute and licks my nose and talks about how maybe we'll have sex later... then like 3 handsome dudes come up and she leaves with them. Or, I meet a girl on the beach and she's fun and kind of excited to see me and invites me to a party later... then when I go she's kind of hot and cold then more focused on buying drugs than talking/dancing with me. Vibe with someone, but then they don't even want to hold hands. I make out with a girl on the way to bringing them to my tent and then they don't want to go anymore (better than getting them there and having them decide they want to leave imo). It's a bit frustrating.

I'm also trying to party less, so that's def something working against me. I'm not really doing drugs anymore and I am trying to drink less, I def don't think alcohol helps my interactions but its pretty weird to try and pick up wasted girls when I'm sober.

What do you guys think will help me here? Or any tips, advice, etc. Obvs you're not me so you can't know exactly my sticking points but I a) Talk to women who look interesting b) Make them laugh c) Have deep engaging conversations d) Get physical e) Do this with multiple people