I was raised in an environment 100% surrounded by women. I have no male role model. When I was younger I did get some show of manliness by my dad, but he is a psychopath (often hitting my mum and I) and we had to cut ties.

I'd say I am metrosexual. I love shopping and design (house and fashion). There are a few manly things that I do, though: Watching sports like a maniac with beer, I love fighting.

I've been going to the gym and increasing my SMV, but I think I've gone overboard on the whole dress-well thing. My family is Italian so we, culturally, tend to make a lot of gestures, which, combined with my own tendencies makes for rather extravagant gestures. I also tend to get hit on by guys more frequently than my other straight friends.

I'd appreciate any pointers on how to fix this situation.