Do you keep the same red pill mentality as described by our brothers (and the sidebar) with girls who you met and obviously see a potential LTR with?

My experience: I'm part of a non-profit volunteering organization and we had a new member a few weeks ago. She's very kind, genuine and, honestly, not really slut/plate material. I wouldn't want to talk with her as a girl I'd talk to at a bar to just fuck on the occasion. We had an event today in which she touched me a lot and overall had a great laugh in our conversations. I wouldn't want to treat her like a plate, sleep with her, reject commitment and create a scene throughout our organization.

What are your thoughts on this or general applying of red pill behavior to potential LTR girls?