How can I express sexual intent to prevent ghosting or getting friend zoned??

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-06-04T22:02:58+00:00

I don't think you have to worry about getting friendzoned when you haven't gone out with them yet. As for ghosting, you have to realize that some girls give them numbers out not because they are interested, but because they felt pressured or didn't want to hurt your feelings at that moment. You just gotta keep getting numbers and eventually, some of those numbers will lead to a date.

Eclecto1 · 2019-06-04T22:49:45+00:00

That’s not getting friendzoned. The friendzone is when you make a move on a girl and she rejects you, but you stay her friend in hopes of getting her to like you. What you’re referring to is ghosting, and it happens a lot because not every girl that gives out her number is interested. She might have found someone else. Maybe she didn’t want to hurt your feelings. It’s just a numbers game.

TheXXL · 2019-06-05T04:54:32+00:00

The solution is not to collect random phone numbers. Your goal is to make her want your number! During the interaction you have to make sure that she gets attracted to you, otherwise the number is worthless. You do that first off by flirting. The right way to look at her (strong eye contact), the right way of smile, more like a smirk than a full blown all teeth smile, your tone of voice (relaxed, smooth, deep), the way you speak to her, usually I don't take myself or them very seriously, I have a smart sense of humor that I use, and one of the most important things is physicality.

You have to start touching her. Friendly touches at first to get her used to it, like a quick touch of her upper arm when you make a point, a high five when she's funny, a hug when's she's being cute to you while pointing that out "you're cute!" and the more your ramp it up, the more intimate the touches get (wiping a strain of hair out of her face, wiping her back up and down slowly, or drawing random forms on her back with your finger and so on.)

Be subtle and always look how she reacts! If she pulls back, you stop and go slower. If she leans in or behaves more attracted, ramp it up. Just relax and think of what you want to do to her and things should fall into place.

LotsOfSpanking · 2019-06-05T00:00:20+00:00

I think what you're looking for or asking for is how to be more flirty. That honestly depends on your personality. For me, being flirty is being assumptious, assuming attraction, and maybe a bit cocky or sexual. In my head, this girl wants me. I know what I have to offer because honestly I've very happy with my life and I don't care if you like me, love me, or hate me unless you're close family or close friends. My activities throughout the week don't stop because a girl rejects me. I can say whatever I want and its fine because I'm having fun.

Short, cool story bro example from yesterday. Mid conversation after like 5 minutes or so of talking to a girl she asked me if I do this a lot which is a common question(shit test) girls will ask. Told her "yeah, you're my 1 millionth victim today, you get a free ipad, congrats" in a sarcastic tone. She laughs, tells me I'm funny, I accuse her of hitting on me and trying to get in my pants. I explain to her that I'm a good boy and she needs to settle down with her sex a bit. Blah blah, take the number, tell her where we'll go hangout for drinks later in the week, talk a bit more then I say goodbye.

To be flirty you have to be comfortable talking about sex or sexual things. As a man, sex is not a big deal. Sex is amazing. Sex is beautiful and fun. Always be down to talk about sexual things. In the end though, it's all personal style. You have to find the flirtatious vibe that fits you personally like and fits you the most.

Title	How can I express sexual intent to prevent ghosting or getting friend zoned??
Author	TaeKwonPiccolo
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	June 4, 2019 9:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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