Hey.

I've had some moderate success with women. But my issue is this.. most of the women I've been with are women who I am attracted to but they're not the best out there. I suppose I've always sold myself short in life but I'm busy getting over that, of course it's a process and I believe this is one aspect of that.

My issue is that with the more beautiful women, I typically just talk differently to them or it feels like I do. Maybe because they respond differently than the normal girls I flirt with/seduce. So im thinking that my game is off with the hotter girls and I've been wondering as to why this is the case. I don't comment on their looks, I try to neg them more od just as much as the other girls but they just don't take it as well or playfully as the other girls so it ends up not going too well.

I think that, a lot of the time, I either sabotage myself because I don't fully believe I could get a girl like that or she just isn't attracted to me and my game or lack thereof doesn't help me much. Also, the hotter girls are usually more adamant about dating rather than just being a "plate" which is how I do things. So oftentimes I'd end up just cutting my losses.

I was just wondering if you guys have experienced a similar thing and how did you combat it? How do I manage to essentially "upgrade" my women? Not sure if this is relevant but I'm from a small town, and also, the two friends I spent most of my nights out with in past years have always been more attractive than I and thus got all or most of the attention. So I never felt like I could get those girls with them around and that probably translated to me feeling that way period. Either way, any insight you guys could provide would be highly appreciated.