Insecure

skatinislife446 · 2019-07-04T20:05:39+00:00

First step: delete Instagram

mandypasta · 2019-07-04T21:01:59+00:00

Yeah i try to stay off instagram, snapchat can be just as bad if youre constantly looking at old friends stories of them having fun. I only use twitter and youtube now cause theyre good for learning and news, everything else is a waste of time.

2019-07-05T02:59:56+00:00

u/joelhamptn I used to be the same way, I would lay in bed at night and stew in people making of me, i would flip through Instagram telling myself life screwed me and if I could just be like this person or just get this, it would solve all of my problems. Well it doesn’t, the only way to break the cycle is to confront your fears, start talking to girls, make new friends, you have to step out of your comfort zone. There’s a great podcast on Spotify I listened to by James Marshall called how to achieve flow state. Go listen to it, it will change your entire perspective.

lesntoomy · 2019-07-04T20:46:55+00:00

Get into daygame and it will change your life https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c

martinluther1486 · 2019-07-04T21:10:02+00:00

Broad question so here's a broad answer.

Start with watching good self development youtube channels, and reading self-dev books. Then APPLY what you learn. How to Win Friends and Influence People is a classic GOLD mine. Edit: Check out Corey Wayne on YT too.

Focus on making yourself a better person in every aspect. Between work, school, and gym you should be able to make some connections with people.

Instead of spending time on instagram, go do something like a hobby, or go to an event. You already go to the gym, so good on you for that.

Ultimately, you are responsible for your circumstances. Most of the time at least.

HoosierProud · 2019-07-05T04:55:42+00:00

Start doing classes at your gym. Join a rock climbing gym or something. If you workout you're probably somewhat athletic. Join a co Ed sports league or two. This can help expand your social circle.

Title	Insecure
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	16
Comments	10
Date	July 4, 2019 6:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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