When you try to find out how many guys look up "how to get over your fear of rejection?" or even worse, "how to never be rejected?", the numbers you are going to find are going to exceed your wildest expectation. I see more guys in this subreddit that are more OBSESSED with rejection than focused on winning.

It's saddening to see that what is holding so many people from achieving their basic dreams is fear that they will fail. Let me tell you today why you are so dumb for thinking this way, and why you are already getting rejected every day, by YOURSELF.

Rejecting yourself comes in two ways as far as I am concerned, one of which is just not going out to socialize and talk to women and the other is not talking to girls you like. Think about it this way, you see a girl, you don't know if she is mean or nice, you don't know if she is happy or sad, you just apply a preconceived filter on her and you assume that she is going to reject you. So you don't go talk to her. What happens here is that she isn't really involved in the process of rejection, only you are involved and that means you rejected yourself. I think that is self-evident.

I am saying that fear of rejection does not exist, me saying that is lying to myself as I face it every day. Not only with women. I get rejected when I apply to jobs, I get rejected when I invite people to hang out, and I get rejected when I approach girls. I probably get rejected 10-20-50 times before I achieve my goal. But that is completely okay because, in the end, I ACHIEVED MY GOAL.

I am not going into life, to make anything worthwhile of myself, by thinking that I am not going to get hurt, to leave a piece of me in the field. That's impossible (and boring). It's hard to have your propositions refused by others, but then you only have to convince one person to accept your proposition for you to succeed.

Therefore, for guys out there paralyzed about 20 girls rejecting them in their night out, think about that 21st approach (or 101st for that matter) who is going to like you. Yes, if you approach 100 girls, it takes only 1 girl to like you to achieve your main goal for that night, even though 99 others rejected you. So it's all up to whether your success is worth going through 99 rejections.

I know you agree with this. I met so many starting guys who I did cold approaches with and they get rejected several times. And then all of a sudden, they approach a girl and she likes them and they get a number or an instant date and then when I ask them "how was your night?", they completely forget about the rejections and they keep talking about that one girl that was nice and cute and they are planning something...

The good news is, as you get good at this, or whatever it is that you are doing, it takes less fails to get a success. Think about it this way, if when you started out, it took you 20 approaches to get 1 result, then a few weeks (or months) in, it might take you only 10 to get 1 result. And then 5. And then 3. This is only achievable if you stay consistent and you always practice. Same thing with getting a job, or building a business, or making friends. The more successes you get, the less you have to work for more success.

So I really hope guys who need this will read it and benefit from it. I highly encourage you to live by this rule. You will always find success in a bag full of failures.

I made a video about this lately, if you want to check it out follow this link => https://youtu.be/JorT9cL7DQg

Good luck on your journey and may you get stronger every day!