Need Help: 26 and going through pivotal transition; ditching fat girlfriend, tossing loser friends, getting focused (need advice)

oldblackcoffee · 2014-04-29T04:30:52+00:00

Grow your business, kick your ex out of the apartment, turn her room into an office. You'll need it to handle all of the extra business you're getting. Believe in yourself.

Just out of curiosity, what kind of business do you have that's bringing in residual income?

musicvita25 · 2014-04-29T14:43:41+00:00

I read what your business is. Its hugely similar to mine. Best job ever, hours are flexible, but I go into the office to get shit done. Outsourced all my work.

Im the same age as you homie, i'll give you some stuff;

Gym - Essential
Be alone daily - I work alone, but I like to sometimes just go off and read, and be alone for at least 20 minutes a day to think.
Ignore every single blue pill ideal - Assume like I do, noone has a fucking clue. They don't. Some may come across blue pill, but none know it like this subreddit. Just believe in YOUR ideal, don't go off.
Remember this quote, "worrying is like putting a bet against yourself. Would you bet against yourself to lose?"
Beware of the hot ones pretending to be good - They are all the same. 9s 8s 7s. Some 9s are friendlier and more professional when it comes to dating, but just treat her like a 3.
Remind yourself where your business is going, and where you want to be. Aka I want to have x about of money by the time I'm 30. Im on course if invest x y z. Have a plan on how to grow. Don't be stale and happy with a small salary. Dream big.

ScottBlues · 2014-04-29T14:49:17+00:00

DON'T RUSH THINGS
Right now it would be a useless risk to have all these massive changes at once, let time work FOR you, not AGAINST you...

Keeep the fat bitch around to pay for half the rent (if you get a new place, it's not going to be as good as this one, and you'll have to pay more) and remember SHE CAN STILL BE USEFUL (helping you if you're sick, running errands, cooking, cleaning, etc...).
In the meantime improve your financial position, finish your studies and, on the side, fuck those college girls you love so much, playing it safe (i.e. don't get caught).
A year isn't that long, if you work diligently by this time in 2015 you'll have a bigger business, more cash, you won't be bound by this lease anymore, you'll be buff as f***, and you'll finally be in the ideal position to dump the whale and get on with your life. trust me.

rebuildingMyself · 2014-04-29T04:35:27+00:00

Option d: you break up and break the lease. Take it in the ass with a penalty payment and then you're free. Consult your apartment lease for the details. I think it'd be something like a months rent in fees.

Just get your shit in order first. Save up some money for the fee, quietly start searching for more reasonable accommodations, and when you have all your ducks in a row, pull the trigger. Give her a few weeks to find her own place (or just pay your half of the rent for a month and move yourself out).

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2014-04-29T18:44:17+00:00

This is being removed by being in the wrong subreddit. Personal "what should I do?" questions go in /r/asktrp, questions about redpill principles and theories go here.

Please resubmit to /r/asktrp.

dman8000 · 2014-04-29T05:33:36+00:00

There are few better uses of money than getting away from that girl. UNless you are going to go hungry, do it.

If her name is on the lease, you won't be able to kick her out though. You will need to leave yourself.

strivingforfreedom · 2014-04-29T06:28:37+00:00

I would tell her to leave, then just find another roommate on craigslist or something. If it's such a good place you'll have loads of people lining up to get in there. Just make sure to do a background check or financial check on possible new roomies. Rock.

theozoph · 2014-04-29T09:32:40+00:00

My other, much smaller, circle of friends are older and far too successful to be interested in sharing an apartment.

Your biggest problem seems to be kicking the landwhale out without taking a financial hit. My advice : use your social network to fish for a viable candidate to replace her. They might be too old / successful to be interested, but they might know people who aren't and if you're make clear they're only to send people they're willing to vet, the quality will be far better than fishing blindly.

Peace.

PlantNutrient · 2014-04-29T11:24:57+00:00

Holy shit /r/thebluepill would have a field day

Title	Need Help: 26 and going through pivotal transition; ditching fat girlfriend, tossing loser friends, getting focused (need advice)
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Upvotes	27
Comments	34
Date	April 29, 2014 3:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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