So I met this girl on hinge, we really hit it off on the first date and were all over each other. I decided to not invite her back first time because more often than not I've lost girls for moving too fast. I get her to pick me up for second date and we greet each other with a make-out. We went downtown and played some games together, went back to my place and she gave me a blow job but no sex bc she said she was on her period. We agreed to meet next weekend (Sunday 6 days ago) but she cancelled saying she had a migraine. I said ok and then we rescheduled for this Saturday, I texted her "see you then :)" to which she replied with a smiley emoji. And then out of nowhere, only 5 minutes later from sending the smiley emoji she texts me "So I know the expectation of our last date is that we'll have sex and last time I thought that's what I wanted, but I'm just really not ready to have sex. With anyone, right now - idk if another date is a good idea" - Like what? How does she change her tune that quickly? I try to reassure her that we won't do anything she's not comfortable with but her guard seems to be up and is staying up. She seems to reluctantly agree to still meet Saturday and texts me asking what I want to do (meaning what do I want to do that's not sex), I suggest playing pool and maybe watching a movie to which she replies "Sounds good to me". So first do you guys think it would still be worth meeting her after her above texts or would I just be wasting my time? I just don't understand how chicks can do this and be so cold, we were literally all over each other our first two dates, making out like teenagers, and all of a sudden she wants to drop me like what we experienced didn't even happen? Chicks really do must have an insane amount of choice to be willingly turning down sex, I can't even imagine doing that... It just really hurts, I feel played - Why bother making out with me and sucking my dick if you're just gonna ditch me like nothing happened? It just feels like some practical joke was played on me and she never liked me at all in the first place... Deep down I get that I blow rejections way out of proportion and let it just wreck me but considering my results are so limited idk if it's so far-fetched to believe it's over for me - The thing is I live in a world of scarcity and she was the last girl I got to meet off hinge in person before I got banned from hinge - So if I lose her then I'll pretty much have to rely solely on cold-approach, which I've tried a lot but suck at it and have gotten virtually zero results. I have gotten double digit lays now since finding out about seddit but they've all been from either dating apps or a job I've held, zero from cold approach. I feel like she was my last shot at sex and now that her guards up, and now that I'm banned from both tinder and hinge I'm doomed. How would you guys approach this situation? What should I do?