These three tips will immediately help you start having better interactions the next time you go out.

I've daygamed very consistently for years now and today I want to share something with you all that should improve your game/ remind you of something that you know already.

Tip # 1 - committing to all your action

The number one mistake guys make is not committing to their action. This comes through in the smallest things. The way you approach the girl. The way you lead. The way you ask for her phone number.

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You hesitate, you masturbate. It's as simple as that.

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You don't necessarily become more attractive to girls by trying to do more game techniques, but you definitely are MORE attractive when you commit to your actions.

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People say to be confident, but what does that mean?

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It means to not hestiate. It means to just whatever the fuck you want and own the fuck out of it. You can be a total beginner at this, and if you just are committed to your words, behaviors, girls will find you attractive.

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Tip # 2 - Make more statements

This is one of the best ways to avoid the trap of falling into the boring interviewer guy, who just questions stacks the girl.

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Instead of doing that, look to make more statements especially early on in the interaction.

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You can do cold reads or just share yourself with her.

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Instead of asking "what do you do for work?", you can say "I have a feeling you're a lawyer." And as you get better and better at cold reading, you'll develop a mind reading ability and girls love it.

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On top of this, you want to comment on what she's given you. So instead of asking a question, then asking another question, you want to ask a question, receive her answer, then comment on it or give your own answer to the question you asked.

Once you start adopting the mindset that you need to make more statements, it will also help you become more expressive with your personality. (Infield example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tA76ok-R8Ek)

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Tip # 3 - Think about the girl's contribution to the interaction

This is one of the biggest game changers for me. Most beginners, intermediates go into game with the mindset that they have to perform, and run an unrealistic standard of brilliant verbal game, when in fact, game is a mutual experience.

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The only factor that decides whether a girl will hit you back after you get her number is her experience of the interaction.

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If you can get her actively participating, and feeling good whilst doing it, then she will be a lot less likely to flake on your date.

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You can start by asking easy to answer questions like "what do you do?", "where are you from?" then transition to getting her involved in hypothetical scenarios that you create like roleplays and future projections.

Example in youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tA76ok-R8Ek

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