I first started going out with the intent to do game a couple of months ago I've seen improvement. The last 3-4 times I went out, I guess I experienced what people in this community call "God mode." It felt like a negative thought couldn't penetrate my head. I was 100% confident, vulnerable, social, and completely "in the zone."
I thought this was my new normal and that I had "cracked the code" so to speak and now that I had this confidence I would slowly improve more and more as I tried new things.
However, I went out last night and while I wasn't really having AA, I just couldn't seem to get into a zone at all. I felt self-doubt. Usually I can approach groups of girls with a direct opener and it felt like I almost always got a receptive response because I was being so confident. Last night, most girls turned away from me/one even told me that I seemed "rehearsed." Even when I had girls buying into me, I almost felt counterfeit and inauthentic and like "why do they like me right now?"
I know that progress and what not trumps results every time and that's what you should worry about. But that's the thing. I was the one who felt off and unconfident regardless of results (even when I got a number from a good looking girl I felt like my game wasn't as good as it could have been.)
One thing I think is that the last few times since I was new to being good it was exciting and spontaneous and my energy captured that, but last night it felt like I was "going through the motions."
I also looked around me ln and looked at other guys and felt inferior which is the opposite of how I felt those other nights.
Just wondering if y'all who have been doing this for a while experienced this feeling as you were getting better, and how you adjusted.
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