I found this subreddit about 2 years ago, so I'm fairly new to this and have always used what I learned to try to meet new girls to date. However, I also met a girl around 2 years ago and have been with her for about that long. So as you can imagine, I was truly just a beginner when I found a girl and basically stopped caring.

However, 2 years later, I find myself basically not having fun anymore when I go out with friends. I seriously don't even remember how I approached and got numbers back in the day. I've started to refocus my efforts on improving myself which I think you can do regardless if you're in a relationship or not, however in terms of social skills, how have you guys kept it sharp? Now when I go out and there's no end goal of maybe I can set up a date or take her home, my motivation is completely gone. Approach anxiety totally takes over, and I basically meet noone new anymore.

So for those in a relationship, have you still kept up approaching and meeting girls? And when you do so, do you shift your mindset so there's still a end goal (such as joining friend groups and getting more friends?)