Is taking a girl I’m interested In to a frat party a bad idea?

hunterpua · 2019-09-06T07:51:36+00:00

Definitely a bad idea unless you have the skills to create equal or more perceived status than the established frat guys that go to that party.

I've had sex with many girls who have told me that it was their first time fucking someone on the first day we met and they're usually around freshman age so just because she hasn't done it before or doesn't think she'd do it doesn't mean she will never actually do it.

Also, she may not hook up with any other guy that night but she might fall for a different one and not be interested in you anymore.

The key to creating a perceived status similar to or higher than the established frat guys is to have the ability to have great interactions with practically everyone at the party so that by around the middle of the night everyone recognizes you and everyone likes you, even the established frat guys.

If you don't think you can do that then don't roll the dice.

...

This part is for everyone reading this comment

A lot of you have sent me direct messages asking for my advice because you read a comment I made on this sub, just like this one, and found it to be very helpful/insightful/meaningful and I'm happy to say I've been able to help you guys so much more because of that.

Here's the problem: More and more messages are coming in and I really want to help but its getting hard to keep up.

So I've put together a Telegram group for you guys that want to improve your dating lives and want to actually understand the psychology behind our interactions with not only women but with ourselves and people in general.

If you want to be part of a group that believes in finesse over brute force, technique over strength, smart work over hard work, Seduction over pursuit then send me a direct message with your Telegram username.

If you are serious about getting better with women then I'll be happy to welcome you in.

smoothmax · 2019-09-06T14:51:32+00:00

Frat parties can be a bit creepy, almost like entering a spider's lair. In my limited experience almost the only reason why frats let non-member guys into parties is if they bring girls that the frat members are hoping to get drunk and bang.

Don't want to paint all frat houses that way but I def got that impression. It's probably the only way a male frat house can have parties at all, otherwise it's just a sausage party or they hire strippers.

Alex_O7 · 2019-09-06T08:25:56+00:00

I think it could turn out terribly for you. You have to be as good as older guys, but you cannot compensate their experiences whatever you will do. I also think that now you can do very few things because telling her that you will not go may put you in a worst situation than actually going with her.

If you can try to make out with her prior to the party, so if she doesn't want at least you are sure to have played all your cards.

Styloburner · 2019-09-06T11:31:53+00:00

Yes, it's a bad idea

Rymasq · 2019-09-06T16:07:08+00:00

hah no, unless you've already sealed the deal with her, but yeah frat parties are where any girl can get legitimately preyed upon

cuckler-meeseeks · 2019-09-06T23:43:58+00:00

The goal is to isolate and have a good vibe. Not her being hit on by a million dudes untill one of them pulls her and you watch like a cuck.

devilkingx2 · 2019-09-06T07:30:35+00:00

It will go great if you can balance leaving her alone with keeping an eye on her.

On one hand, don't leave her to get wasted and take her top off in front of a bunch of guys that aren't you then goes home with one of them.

On the other hand, don't chain yourselves together or she won't have any fun and neither will you.

If you find the sweet middle ground where you both have fun (meet people, drink, dance, play party games, etc.) and you use the fact that she's drunk to escalate until you're ready to take her home and smash her, it'll be an amazing date. But if you screw it up it'll be a disaster.

Just don't worry about anything, prepare but do not worry. If you're relaxed, ready to have fun and prepared it'll go great!

AFL-NOEL · 2019-09-06T07:53:49+00:00

Nothing wrong with it brother.. if it were me I’d try and already hook up w/ her prior to the party but if that’s not possible just go and have a blast at the party and if she’s feeling you like you’re feeling her you’ll likely hookup that night.. but if she gets there and is “weighing her options” then you’ll hopefully be doing that there too which will either make her gravitate back to you or you just enjoy whoever these new options are.. also I’d definitely increase my approaches around campus so that you can already have some additional options at the party which makes things even easier for you.. win win win any way you look at it.. you’re in college there are hot girls everywhere who want to enjoy themselves.. have a blast, go after what/who you want and don’t be attached to the outcomes.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach Florida for added inspiration, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/xunWVE01P28

2019-09-06T23:08:27+00:00

Yes, take her to the party..I would recommend going at least an hour late so that there are enough people at the party to see that you pulled up with a hot girl, so you already have a preselection going on. Next thing, would be to immediately strike up a conversation with anyone at the party around her presence. Trust me, it is 10x more easy to cold approach anyone when you have a girl by your side. From there build your dhv and smv through your storytelling and rapport routines. If you happen to see someone that you already know then, merge the sets until you have at least big group or 20 people know your name. Don't get too lost talking about sports or some shit with the guys though. They're not gonna suck your dick. Engage more with girls ugly or attractive. Trust me mate, social proof and preselection make up half of the game. By the end of night, you should have plenty of girls not just her who wanna fuck you. ☮️

Title	Is taking a girl I’m interested In to a frat party a bad idea?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	September 6, 2019 7:16 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d0dbcr/is_taking_a_girl_im_interested_in_to_a_frat_party/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/is-taking-a-girl-im-interested-in-to-a-frat-party.1477919 https://theredarchive.com/post/1477919

Comments