It seems to me that most women dont know to show interest in other guys themselves. So they just wait for guys to hit on them and if they really dont like they guy they'll totally reject them, but if they like the guy they'll still put up resistance but finally give in afer a while. Ive started to notice that girls might shoot me down out of the gate but if I keep at it they get more comfortable. I think this where that trope of nice guys finish last and assholes get the girl comes from. Guys who are pushy and persistent get the girl. Guys who take rejection at face value are a lot more likely to be alone. Maybe im wrong about this but i really think things might be this way. And i really hate that sort of dynamic. How can i get girls to be- or at least find the ones who are more genuine and can tell you if they like you back like an adult. I really hate being pushy. I dont want to be that person, even if it gets me pussy.