I've had many girlfriends and I'm able to pull on occasion. But I can't seem to hold on to a relationship for longer than 3 months. I've worked on myself/self improvement over the last 5 years so I don't think I am the problem 100% but I could be I don't know all I know is that I was Recently dating a young 22yr old college girl. im 34. And she breaks up with me. we stayed friends but 2 weeks later I asked her if she wanted to remain Fwb. She replies "I rather not," I was like, I thought you said I was great in bed one of the greatest you ever had? She says "you are definitely and the sex was great" "I love you only not romantically." I've had 3 girls tell me this already. I can't seem to hold attraction for longer than 3 months or maybe it's a value thing, I dont understand. how can I figure this out does anyone have any advice?