"Let me know if you breakup."

dontaskforthewifi · 2019-09-26T15:40:14+00:00

Not a good look. I respect the honesty and being upfront, but not much to gain here by saying that

Aristox · 2019-09-26T14:48:19+00:00

Feels kinda creepy off the back of you replying to her story, rather than after a rejection, which is basically the only place you can make it work i think.

"lol ok" is pretty dismissive so i think she maybe felt the same too

smoothmax · 2019-09-26T15:17:30+00:00

Points for honesty but I'm sure there's a better response ... gotta think ...

If you got her contacts through cold approach she's definitely interested, in spite of her objection.

The key thing is, when there is a major road block or objection raised, to turn it around. In this case, make it your frame that SHE'S the one hitting on you and YOU'RE the one who's respectable and acting proper.

Something like this should have been the first response after the bf confession:

"Aw then come and hang out and cry on my shoulder. Don't get ideas though I'm a gentlemen."

"Then you shouldn't hit on me lol. We can hang out as long as you promise you're gonna be a proper lil girl."

You have your own style so you can run with these ideas.

But you kind of blew it by throwing your heart at her feet so it would actually be more helpful to give you ideas for recovery ...

You could try this:

"Hey never mind, that wasn't very respectful. I'm a dumb guy sometimes. I would never hit on a girl who didnt want me to."

Followup in around 30s, before she can reply:

"We can hang out sometime but you might find it boring how much I don't try to hold your hand and kiss you"

SirAdonisJ · 2019-09-26T18:51:47+00:00

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Title	"Let me know if you breakup."
Author	SirAdonisJ
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	September 26, 2019 2:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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