Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?

AFL-NOEL · 2019-09-30T22:34:54+00:00

There is a lot of life lessons shared in this subreddit by many different people looking to help, and I also think it’s very entertaining and also inspirational to see people winning/evolving in their personal lives.. if you can’t find anything that you enjoy about it then I think you answered your own question, if there is something you enjoy, keep your popcorn 🍿ready and enjoy the show.. here’s a new daygame video for added inspiration to you or anyone else that wants it, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/M5OxVEqAadI

FairAnalyst · 2019-10-01T14:45:30+00:00

I've found doing this stuff to be the closest I'd ever feel to being a rockstar.

If you do this for fun, not just about going for the girl, but meeting people. Going on adventures and having fun. The world becomes a whole different place.

Back when I had wings who could pull, my wings would pull groups back to our pad, and it would be a party of 10 girls and 3 guys. Sometimes we'd invite random guys to hang with us because we knew we had too many girls. This led to a lot of lasting friendships/network with guys from all different backgrounds, doctors, lawyers, millionaires business owners. All different sorts of guys with different interests whose lives would've never overlapped except they liked one single thing. Women.

We got offered crazy favors to keep hanging out with some guys, like a free flight and stay at vegas. Or a free rooming situation downtown right next to clubs. Free rides, foods, access to parties. At one point once you get a network like this going, it becomes almost self-sustaining - you just meet new girls who are friends of friends in the network and it becomes easier to meet them. Its like when you roll out to a venue with girls on your arms, both girls and guys there are way more cool with you than if you rolled in there with just guys.

Very few things in life will feel as good as rolling down the street arms full of girls you just met, walking in the cold back to your place. The 2nd best is meeting up with your wing who has his arms full of girls too who are ready to go. You just know it'll be a fun night.

rich_god · 2019-09-30T22:23:19+00:00

What are you looking for in term of relationships ?

Pretty-Robot · 2019-09-30T22:37:01+00:00

(Serious) Are you on anti-depressants, or some other medications? Could be messing with your interest level in pursuing the opposite sex.

dirtydeadgayjesus · 2019-09-30T22:40:23+00:00

I get those feelings you described now and then when I need some “me” time, but they don’t last more than a week or two. If yours is long term, I can only imagine it must be chemical/hormonal imbalance or some external stress, but I’m no doctor. It just kinda seems like guys are all wired to pursue girls (or whatever you’re into).

If you don’t want to pick up girls there’s nothing wrong with that. Do what makes you happy. But developing the social skills that come along with pickup is an invaluable tool that can improve many aspects in your life. I could never have imagined what I’ve learned from pickup/seduction would be so useful in business and day to day life. I’d say keep working on that aspect whether you use it for seduction or not. The day will come when you need to turn on the charm and you will be prepared to do it. Good luck

JohnnieWalker_13 · 2019-10-01T00:10:41+00:00

Do you watch porn or fap too much? If yes, try to limit those things, especially porn, and see if that makes you see women in a different way

Siyuen_Tea · 2019-10-01T01:53:14+00:00

Only if you plan on going into sales. Seduction is basically getting a person to like you .

You don't have to go to bars and clubs but that's just the easiest way. When you're good, you can just walk up to a person in the street and start gaming. You can get into whatever hobby your into and just talk to the people there.

If you have a healthy libido and not pursuing , you've probably dulled yourself from jacking off. There is exceptions for a few but the desire for sex is an animal desire not a human one. The average person with low sexual desire ( besides from masturbation) will have either a physical condition ( low testosterone) or some sort of psychological trauma.

Title	Is there a point to any of this if I don't plan on meeting women?
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Date	September 30, 2019 10:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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