19 F cant keep a guy interested

GeckoVanderwahl · 2019-10-08T01:19:38+00:00

Are you hot?

Are you sleeping with them quickly?

Honestly don't go for guys you meet in a club. Guys who are coming up to you in a club one weekend are going to be finding a new girl at the club the next weekend. If you want a boyfriend, don't invest effort into a club slut.

I think there's a danger of being too laid back and too easy going. If your just chill and sit on the couch and play FIFA with him, your just one of the guys.

smoothmax · 2019-10-08T00:56:47+00:00

Once you've got a guy hanging around do you make yourself "too available" to him? Think of a kitten with a string. Try jerking the string away sometime or at least pretending you will.

quinnmcd · 2019-10-08T01:04:38+00:00

Maybe fast and easy isn’t the way to go. Take more pick getting to know them and being a little pickier. I also recommend finding guys that’s aren’t in the club. Since you’re in college try meeting guys through groups and school events. Try new hobbies and things that interest you. I’m not saying start watching football to keep guys interested just do things you always wanted to do (Ex. learn a new language, how to dance, or try painting)

codewizbambam · 2019-10-08T01:20:18+00:00

Well usually relationships from clubbing are cheap (i have quite a history of that). Also you're still young, maybe try to find some more experienced guy that can take you under his wings a bit?

axe122 · 2019-10-08T05:24:31+00:00

So I think your at that age where most of the guys you’ll be interested in are experimenting and not ready to stick around. The kinda of nice guys who would be better boyfriends won’t be attractive to you (even if they are physically attractive) so your kinda stuck in a grey area around 24 I’d say some of the guys you don’t want now will grow some balls and be available and you’ll be interested in them and some of the guys you want now will be ready for something a little more real. In the meantime I think just like girls like a challenge a guy with options like a challenge (not just making him wait for sex) a guy will wait out to have sex with a girl who he’s already invested time in he has a better chance of sleeping with her than just starting over. This is why making men wait for sex still doesn’t work. Make him wait a little but don’t be afraid to give him shit about stupid things and be a little challenging personality wise it’s a lot of fun and a lot more fun when a girl is feisty than if she’s just super sweet and innocent. I’m not saying to be someone your not but women don’t comprehend the difference in sex for men and women even if your aware of it. For women if you want you could go to any bar any night and get a guy to sleep with you but it’s much harder for men. So most men will wait for sex once they’ve started investing time in with a girl cuz it’s. still easier and more likely to happen than to start over. I would make them wait till at least the 3 rd date minimum though and don’t be afraid to be a little challenging and break his stones about stupid things like his style or even stuff you like about him.

Title	19 F cant keep a guy interested
Author	warhammerwarhammer
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	October 8, 2019 12:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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