Basic situation.

Let a girl borrow a 400 dollar book to study for an exam that I had already passed. Several months ago.

I was an orbiter. Graduation comes. She moves to another city. I have a mental breakdown. Find trp. Angerphase take it all out on her in vicious fb messages(nothing threatening just a lot of judging statements about how she treated me and what she is). Cause betas gonna beta. Rebuild myself. Need book back. Email her. She leaves voicemail. Implies I am using book as a way to kidnap her or hurt her, states she has fiance now, she is 'happy' to mail the book back if I pay shipping cost.

I just called back and said if you wish to never see me again that is fine, but I will not buy back a book that I lent out in kindness. I will not be charged for letting someone use my book for an extended period of time. The address you can mail the book to is xyz. The whole time I'm saying that just repeats and talks over me. "Nope, not doing it, nope, I will not." After I finish the statement I hang up. She calls back to say she will not pay it. I respond saying that I will alert the police that she has taken a 400 dollar book and refuses to give it back then say have a nice day and hangup. All in the same stable tone.