Admit it, the thought has passed through your mind...

"Should I send another text?"

  • You both like the same things
  • The interaction went well
  • You got her number
  • Seemed like this would be a GREAT match.

Seen…

No reply.

🎵(CUE DRAMATIC MUSIC) 🎵

For whatever reason, when this happens there’s usually 2 different attitudes and conclusions that I’ve seen men take:

1.) “I’m bad at texting”

2.) “She’s not worth my time”

This is all surface level stuff. Let’s dig a little deeper.

Could it be that:

A.) Your message was generic, she’s probably getting other notifications from Facebook, instagram, other guys texting her, and there is more excitement in those than in your conversation.

B.) She was busy, she forgot, don’t take it personal, send another text and stop letting your ego do the thinking.

🤯 Mind blowing.

I know.

Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

I’ve taken it personal time & time again in the past.

The 2 things that I learned most were the following:

⚠️ Send a message that will spark emotion that will help guarantee a response. So a photo, a meme, a voice note, an inside joke, something better than

“Hey how’s it going”

And

⚠️ Just like you, she’s busy and she has a life. If she forgets, try again at a later time.

Don’t be butthurt.

Remember, if you’re an awesome man on your mission living life, you wouldn’t have time to over think things.

If you do, you aren’t busy enough!